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How Serious Is This Disrespect?

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Soulforge,

She has come back as predicted. Maybe this time she won't act all entitled.

Give her a go and see if she performs better after that tune-up.
I agree with this. If she comes crawling back, take advantage without being a d!ck.
Her: hey how was your weekend?
Me: it was great. Why don't you come over tomorrow night and I'll tell you about it

That's it. She crawled back, invite her over without showing too much availability.

If she bounces back to the entitledbutch, stop responding back to her. Ghost her.

If she wants to come smash and make up for her poor behavior? Ok. .......take advantage
 

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I agree with this. If she comes crawling back, take advantage without being a d!ck.
Her: hey how was your weekend?
Me: it was great. Why don't you come over tomorrow night and I'll tell you about it

That's it. She crawled back, invite her over without showing too much availability.

If she bounces back to the entitledbutch, stop responding back to her. Ghost her.

If she wants to come smash and make up for her poor behavior? Ok. .......take advantage
I would also add in agreement to some other posters here, pretend from this point forward that it never happened.
 

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Got another text from her.


Her - You made other plans without even canceling with me first?

This is coming from someone who clearly ignored me for three days and didn't even reply back to me.

The date was cancelled by default due to her disrespectful actions.

At this point I don't feel like entertaining her crazy behaviour any longer.

My intention is to ghost completely?

Guys even with a plate, there must be a level of mutual respect, honesty and consideration.

When a plate clearly disrespects you and tries to manipulate you.. It's time to drop and ghost that hoe
Good point. Some guys think that plates are supposed to be low value crazy entitled b1tches. Women do not get a free pass just because they are plates.

I view plates as female friends with benefits. I’ve had better relationships with some plates than actual LTRs.

Some plates from 10 years ago are still friends with me now. Some of them have moved on to be happily married.

The same way you shouldn’t take any sh1t from a guy friend, you shouldn’t take sh1t from female friends either.

The word “friend” is a scary word for incels. But I love having female friends because I always end up sleeping with them.

In fact, my entire game is infiltrating social circles, making female friends, connecting with them, hanging out and having sex with them. That’s how nature drew it up.

Sexual tension naturally exists between men and women. You don’t have to put a label on it like “FWB”, “plate status”, or “LTR.” Your labels are irrelevant to nature.

Sexual tension and connection between man and woman will take place regardless of human social constructs, not because of it.

If I have a friend that acts like an inconsistent manipulative bastard, I’m going to dismiss them, male or female. Just because they have a pvssy doesnt mean they get a free pass.

We need to redefine what a plate really is - a high quality woman that you may not be compatible with in an LTR but you can still hook up with.

A plate is not a low quality bat sh1t crazy woman you have to put up with just because you want to get laid.

Nobody in your life should be low quality.

And it’s not either you put up with women’s “sh1t tests” or remain celibate. That’s a false choice.

You can actually meet a hot and sexy woman and plan a date, confirm the date, and have her show up without any games. I’ve done it hundreds of times.

I'm going to say something completely radical. A plate to me is just as important and valuable as an LTR. She’s a woman regardless of what label defines our relationship. The reason why we are not in an LTR is not because she’s low value. It’s because we don’t have romantic feelings for each other or we are not compatible in that sense. But it doesn’t mean we can’t hook up.
 
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I am not saying you should over look it.

I understand where you are coming from.

The point is as you get older you will learn nuance. And that will serve you well.

Best of luck my fellow miscer. :)

Good luck bruv... I have been on both sides of the spectrum.
Good point. Some guys think that plates are supposed to be low value crazy entitled b1tches. Women do not get a free pass just because they are plates.

I view plates as female friends with benefits. I’ve had better relationships with some plates than actual LTRs.

Some plates from 10 years ago are still friends with me now. Some of them have moved on to be happily married.

The same way you shouldn’t take any sh1t from a guy friend, you shouldn’t take sh1t from female friends either.

The word “friend” is a scary word for incels. But I love having female friends because I always end up sleeping with them.

In fact, my entire game is infiltrating social circles, making female friends, connecting with them, hanging out and having sex with them. That’s how nature drew it up

Sexual tension naturally exists between men and women. You don’t have to put a label on it like “FWB”, “plate status”, or “LTR.” Your labels are irrelevant to nature.

Sexual tension and connection between man and woman will take place regardless of human social constructs, not because of it.

If I have a friend that acts like an inconsistent manipulative bastard, I’m going to dismiss them, male or female. Just because they have a pvssy doesnt mean they get a free pass.

We need to redefine what a plate really is - a high quality woman that you may not be compatible with in an LTR but you can still hook up with.

A plate is not a low quality bat sh1t crazy woman you have to put up with just because you want to get laid.

Nobody in your life should be low quality.

And it’s not either you put up with women’s “sh1t tests” or remain celibate. That’s a false choice.

You can actually meet a hot and sexy woman and plan a date, confirm the date, and have her show up without any games. I’ve done it hundreds of times.

Im going to say something completely radical. A plate to me is just as important and valuable as an LTR. She’s a woman regardless of what label defines our relationship. The reason why we are not in an LTR is not because she’s low value. It’s because we don’t have romantic feelings for each other or we are not compatible in that sense. But it doesn’t mean we can’t hook up.

Brilliant post... Mutual respect across the board.

Doesn't matter if it is LTR or just platonic friends or something casual.

There should be a level of mutual respect and decency.

When a person treats you like your insignificant... Or treats you less than human, kick there azz to the curb.


Many on here will tell you, along as she is giving you sex, you should ignore the disrespect and ignore her entitled behaviour because you will get no strings lay out of it.


Yes u might get that desperate sex, that you obtained by lowering yourself.

But how are you growing as a man? How are you developing a sense of self worth and pride in who you are.

If you keep lowering your self worth in order to get sex? How will you ever become the prize!

How will she ever respect you, when she knows deep inside that she treated you like a chump, and you excepted it, because your thirst for her puzzy is so bad.

We have a responsibility to straighten these entitled spoiled brat woman out...

ALLAYS hold them accountable!
 

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What the hell is wrong with you ****ing Simps?? Soulfordge has pretty much nailed the abc´s of handeling crazy plates.
This is a forum for exchanging ideas and you ****ers are railing this guy for not doing it right?
Nigga please, This is how you stand up to a spoiled ***** period. Now STFU and observe!

He´s been doing every step right and this bitchs hamster is in hyperdrive right now, I would strongly advise against ****ing her any time soon though.
Clearly a spoiled dramaqueen
 
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As much as you have done the right thing in this scenario, you are one touchy guy.

Calm down little man berating anyone that disagrees with you.

Ghost is correct. You call others desperate but you've dedicated a whole thread on one woman who you supposedly dont care about lol.

Get a life. You are insecure. Scared because a woman ignored you and now puffing your chest trying to be the alpha lmao.

Laughable uk chav.
 

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When a person treats you like your insignificant... Or treats you less than human, kick there azz to the curb.
This says a lot about you.

Her ignoring you made you feel insignificant and made you feel less than a human lol.

Says a lot about your attitude on here. Very touchy.
 

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As much as you have done the right thing in this scenario, you are one touchy guy.

Calm down little man berating anyone that disagrees with you.

Ghost is correct. You call others desperate but you've dedicated a whole thread on one woman who you supposedly dont care about lol.

Get a life. You are insecure. Scared because a woman ignored you and now puffing your chest trying to be the alpha lmao.

Laughable uk chav.
I have to defend soulforge here.

He is not touchy, he just did not put up with $hit from people, particularly personal attacks.

If people like you can't handle $hit, then don't throw it.
 

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This says a lot about you.

Her ignoring you made you feel insignificant and made you feel less than a human lol.

Says a lot about your attitude on here. Very touchy.
No dude. I don't care about she ghosted.

I just didn't like the negative, c0cky, entitled attitude she came back with

Almost like after ignoring me, I should be dropping everything for this date.

Another simp that will accept anything for puzzy
 

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This says a lot about you.

Her ignoring you made you feel insignificant and made you feel less than a human lol.

Says a lot about your attitude on here. Very touchy.
That is called not tolerating $hit. And yes, it does say a lot about him. Positive stuff.

But I guess you get ignored a lot and now accept it.
 
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As much as you have done the right thing in this scenario, you are one touchy guy.

Calm down little man berating anyone that disagrees with you.

Ghost is correct. You call others desperate but you've dedicated a whole thread on one woman who you supposedly dont care about lol.

Get a life. You are insecure. Scared because a woman ignored you and now puffing your chest trying to be the alpha lmao.

Laughable uk chav.

The thread was important as an example on how to deal with crappy attitudes from woman.

Also to expose the simps like yourself who will rush to defend hoes, because it's the only way for you to get lay.
 

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lmao.

Just have a look at your attitude on this thread. Its been appalling calling everyone simps pvssys etc.

Your mindset is incorrect.

Getting worked up this hard because a girl ignored you. You may come across alpha but if this ''hoe'' can make you so angry to make a thread then it says more about your inner self then it does about her. Accept that for your own good.
 

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The thread was important as an example on how to deal with crappy attitudes from woman.

Also to expose the simps like yourself who will rush to defend hoes, because it's the only way for you to get lay.
This thread isnt an example and that was not your intention. You are literally asking people what to text next. Dont lie to yourself.
 

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lmao.

Just have a look at your attitude on this thread. Its been appalling calling everyone simps pvssys etc.

Your mindset is incorrect.

Getting worked up this hard because a girl ignored you. You may come across alpha but if this ''hoe'' can make you so angry to make a thread then it says more about your inner self then it does about her. Accept that for your own good.
Yep...this is the point I was trying to make as well. This is also a teaching forum, so the point I was trying to make is dont text broads pointless crap once you have made a date or you just come off thirsty even though you think you dont. These dumb bimbos think differently than us. I was not trying to attack anyone either in my replies.

Also I do not condone disrespectful behavior but I do condone throwing it right back though if she disrespects you in a nice gentlemen way. Per what I said to do is invite her useless a$$ to your place (no date and no going out) straight to your place and get your pipes cleared out and then slap her on the booty and send her on her way and tell her you will reach out to her when you want to see her again for round 3. This is pretty much what glassguy said to do and others on this thread.

Also guys take this alpha mind set to the extremes. Girls are physically weaker than guys and they have to test you to make sure you are not crazy and that you will not harm them. You passed her test...which yes is a bs thing to do but every girl tests you in some form or fashion and if she doesn't then you are probably dating a transexual or one butt ugly girl.
 
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That is called not tolerating $hit. And yes, it does say a lot about him. Positive stuff.

But I guess you get ignored a lot and now accept it.
He probably gets ignored so much, it's second nature to him.. This is why he thinks it's perfectly normal for woman to behave like this.
 
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lmao.

Just have a look at your attitude on this thread. Its been appalling calling everyone simps pvssys etc.

Your mindset is incorrect.

Getting worked up this hard because a girl ignored you. You may come across alpha but if this ''hoe'' can make you so angry to make a thread then it says more about your inner self then it does about her. Accept that for your own good.

Let's be clear on two facts.

  1. We have Soulforge who has demonstrated his intolerance of bull$hit has brought the HB to heel.
  2. We have caesarofnone who didn't take care of $hit properly at the start of his relationship and is now struggling with his wife's poor behavior.

Which one to model? Hmmmmm......
 

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@soulforge This is like the most common sh*t test. You passed it, and should’ve went on the date and got your reward after(sex).

Edit: I wanted to elaborate on this further for guys who don’t understand what happened here, why this is the most common sht test and how to pass it.

You’ll meet a girl, things will be going smooth, fast response times to your texts, a date or two maybe a lay then one day you send her a message and BAM silence. No response.

She has trained you to expect a reply back quickly. So when you don’t reply quickly most guys hamster starts spinning

“did I say something wrong?” “Is it another guy?”

Yes it may be another guy orbiting, but that’s not effecting her response times.. chicks can text a dozen people at the same time.
What she really is doing is checking your temperature. How invested is he? if I make myself ghost a day or two or in this case three will he blow up my phone? Act butt hurt like a little girl?

How to pass this test everytime: Simple. Resume the conversation as if nothing ever happened. Act like it’s no big deal, like you barely noticed.

How to fail this test everytime: Ask where she’s been? How come you haven’t heard from her, or act like it was an issue at all she didn’t text you.

How to completely lose her interest: Start double texting, acting needy and basically like she is the only girl you can get

What @soulforge response should be: Oh! Damn my bad. I hadn’t heard from you in a few days and I totally forgot about the date. I made some other plans, reschedule for tomorrow?

Would it be wrong if you disappeared for a couple days or do women see that as your not into them?
 

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You are an example of a dude who will do anything for puzzy

Chick is late for a date... No problem

Doesn't reply back to a text within a reasonable time? No Problem

Cancles a date? No Problem


Ignores you're text completely.. Flakes out on the date.. Then blames YOU for everything.. Not even an apology... Tells you it's your loss because you didn't reply back immediately to her expectations..

Insunuiates that she has made other plans with another dude...

My brother I will pray for you... You will accept anything for a lay!

You are contributing towards this terrible behaviour these chicks have!

Western society is doomed!
lol, you’re funny. You also make mountains out-of-molehills. Your thought process is very similar to a woman’s entitlement frame.

I’d understand if you had communicated boundaries and expectations before hand, but the text exchange you described really it’s just an opportunity to play and be light-hearted and fun about it. You two are just getting to know each other - even though you’ve boxed her in a ‘just a hoe’ box. Your language around women reveal your own deep seated anxiety around deservedness more than a true description in your reduction of who they are.

Disrespect in my book is if she didn’t communicate at all and flaked on the date. If you are really that precious about your allotment of time, you’d communicated to confirm albeit in a covert manner - ‘hey I want you to wear some ____ tomorrow, bring ____ , I have a surprise, etc.’

Professionalism around time takes consideration of both parties needs, wants as well as accounting for those who have lower standards.

I get that you have a different perspective about it but just because someone doesn’t agree with you or offers an insight into your blind spot doesn’t make them a simp nor a thirsty dude desperate for a lay.

I might be misinterpreting and you come across as wound kinda tight.

btw, I was mistaken before, you are not that kinda dude that needs the last word.

Keep up the good work.
 
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