"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She trying to cheat?

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Girl I asked out said she was talking to someone but it's complicated, and says to send her a message. How to approach this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gan

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Ignore what she said and ask her out on a date. Its not your concern what she is doing with someone else. "Talking to" is a pretty unserious relationship status
I did ask her out though. You're saying to do it again?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wouldn't.
She's either only with me or without me.
She deserves nothing from you. Don't reward her bad attitude with your attention.

Commence opperation "Ditch the b1tch"!
Lmao I'm just trying to get in her pants. Wanted to know if I had the green light to pursue
 

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Complicated people only want to bring complication to your life.

Do you know what that means?
It means she's a drama queen.
Move on!

You'll drive yourself crazy trying to solve a complicated puzzle.
 

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It’s not your job to be her moral compass.

Treat all women as if they are single and DTF. Let them make their own decisions and reap the consequences of them.

All you need to know here is that she is not LTR material if she is considering fooling around with several men or behind another man’s back. She’s purely a play thing and not worth a considerable amount of effort.

Indifference.
If "talking" to several at a time is their norm do you think this changes and magically they prefer strict one on one connection?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes, and it might very well be a sincere “change” of intention to them, but in all of my experience it is seldom a permanent change. They often revert back to old ways in due time when the honeymoon stage wears off and things get real and imperfect.

I don’t roll the dice and take my chances with such women. They are sexual fodder and not much more.

A woman with a proper moral compass will possess it from the very beginning.
Well spoken
 

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Lmao I'm just trying to get in her pants. Wanted to know if I had the green light to pursue
That's pretty obvious.
But if she's banging someone else, you know...diseases...uhh.
No woman that's not like your wife is worth that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lmao I'm just trying to get in her pants. Wanted to know if I had the green light to pursue
Never pursue. Ignore anything a woman says about any dude... just ignore it. Until she uses it as an excuse not to meet up... then all you need to do is say "Too bad, here's my number, give me a call when you can meet up." Then forget about her. If she ever reaches out again for any reason, then assume she want to see you... then make a date... if she tosses BF back in your face, be polite but get off the phone as soon as you can.

This is a dance I've played many times.... I'm not going to lie, 90% of the time you never hear from her again, but this is better than getting sucked into the gravitational well of a black hole. However, if she does reach out you know you have a chick with very high interest.
 

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Ignore anything a woman says about any dude... just ignore it.
^this the best advice^

If out on a date, just get up and go to the toilet, smoke etc, dont say a word.
 
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