BackInTheGame78
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Who cares. Wear a hat if you are that bothered by it. Once the woman is hooked it won't matter.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yea I got part of my facial hair on my chain has been graying since I've been about 25. Otherwise no other grey hairs.None to mild, little thinning on top and corners and sometimes receding on the corners, but I’m 30 and this has been so gradual I have a good 10 years I hope before action is needed.
I’ve been slowly greying since about 16, it’s ramping up now, people comment on my greys, I cut my hair short and you can’t see them. Hasn’t really put any women off AFAIK
It's been my experience that the strength of hair in front can more than make up for the bald spot. I've had gals seem to not give a hoot about my bald spot, but be amazed at the thickness of the shock of hair in the front. I have even played a game with them by saying that the price to put their hand through the front is to lick the bald spot.I honestly wish I could agree the theory that, "Balding is only an issue if it affects your confidence." But I can't.
When she sees a bald spot, her reaction is "Eww gross/he's old/he looks like my dad." Such a guy won't have a chance to "out-game" or "out-frame" his balding*.
*Unless she's like 38+ yo. Then she might cut him some slack. But younger women are merciless on this one.
I think whenever a gal sees a man wearing a hat, she's thinking "HE'S BALD".Who cares. Wear a hat if you are that bothered by it. Once the woman is hooked it won't matter.
Yes this is true. I’ve actually had the bald spot for at least 10 years (but maybe slightly smaller). But I compensated by growing my hair out and spiking up the front. That worked very well.It's been my experience that the strength of hair in front can more than make up for the bald spot. I've had gals seem to not give a hoot about my bald spot, but be amazed at the thickness of the shock of hair in the front. I have even played a game with them by saying that the price to put their hand through the front is to lick the bald spot.![]()
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.