drakeisfire
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I know it's just hair color but seriously.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Seriously, it’s not as simple as a hair color or race…I know it's just hair color but seriously.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'd like to hear your theory when you have more time.I’m actually more attracted to brunettes by simple looks but I seem to do much better with blondes. I’m my area they are the friendliest of the women for the most part. Blondes, then reds, then brunettes. Blondes much More personable. I have a theory as to why but no time to share now. Gotta run to work so maybe later.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My theory is that blondes tend to be the stereotypical ‘hot babes’ that get all the attention. So they tend to be more secure with themselves and thus less prone to think they must compensate by being b!Tchy. I find them much easier to approach and more personable. I think brunettes are more prone to being insecure cuz as a collective they don’t get the attention blondes do, so they act accordingly. The redheads fall somewhere in the middle. There are the wild feisty stereotypical reds. Then there are the stereotypical ugly ones too. These are just my opinions and observations.I'd like to hear your theory when you have more time.
This is it. I would say that a bottle blonde is going to be more self-conscious, and therefore not have the b!tch shield going. I mean look how getting blonde hair made this gal a vixen, making her AFOG Sofia Loren:I've always tended to do better with blondes, but looking at the responses here maybe it's not me after all, maybe blondes are just more receptive period.

Actually from my experience it seems like blondes are very open to going interracial for Asians and minorities in general.Blondes tend to be more feminine. They also have that “glow” that brunettes lack. I love all women as they are literally so fvcking cute it makes my heart ache (i know but yo. Look at them truly and they are AWESOME).
Since I’m Asian blondes are a little hesitant to date me as its very outside there comfort zone but once they see I’m cool and non needy they like me.
Blondes tend to be more feminine like I said so put that in your “game” so to speak next time you interact with them I.e hold space and be there. Let her do the talking and ****
This has not been my experience, from what I have seen with hot white girlsBlonde white women IMO typically don't date outside their race. Unless it's a star athlete. I am not a white male however have hooked up with some but definitely do better with brunettes. I also believe brunettes are naturally more attractive. If you really look, a lot of blonde women aren't that good looking. The gold hair masks a lot of their unattractive features.
I'll add to your theory, I think brunettes feel like they have more to prove and this becomes especially true if that brunette is more Italian, Jewish, or any of the tanned ethnicities of white. Due to this, I think they are more harsh and cut-throat, often trying to get back at the world.My theory is that blondes tend to be the stereotypical ‘hot babes’ that get all the attention. So they tend to be more secure with themselves and thus less prone to think they must compensate by being b!Tchy. I find them much easier to approach and more personable. I think brunettes are more prone to being insecure cuz as a collective they don’t get the attention blondes do, so they act accordingly. The redheads fall somewhere in the middle. There are the wild feisty stereotypical reds. Then there are the stereotypical ugly ones too. These are just my opinions and observations.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This picture about sums it up, blondes tend to be happy and feminine (Glow), brunettes tend to be a little bitchy and self conscious(Downers).