backseatjuan
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never mind, I replied to a wrong thread. sleepy
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Reply: Hey sorry, I'll get back to you asapdaygame. Met new girl 2 days ago I'm pretending to be super busy these 3 days.
She asks: "Why so busy?" in Text
I replied: "When people know you it's hard not to be busy sometimes"
If you have a better reply or feedback. Go ahead and post them.
That reply is kinda awkward and makes you sound arrogant + rude, you should've been like "donald trump is flying me out to the white house" or "I've got a mission, They want me to come in and save america from terrorists again"daygame. Met new girl 2 days ago I'm pretending to be super busy these 3 days.
She asks: "Why so busy?" in Text
I replied: "When people know you it's hard not to be busy sometimes"
If you have a better reply or feedback. Go ahead and post them.
Me: we can get drinks or gorge ourselved on the blood of our defeated enemies, your choiceI asked if she has time to have coffee in the coming days. She replied the following. What do I say now.
It sounds like she doesn't want coffee so I said I'm open for other plans. I also don't drink alcohol. I prefer to avoid it at all cost.
That was a terrible reply, what the hell do you mean no alcohol!? Why on earth would you pass up a chance to get laid for a date that can't get you laid?since no one is helping me. I replied with
me: "no alcohol. Coffee should be fine"
her: "I have plan for the weekend already...."
me: "I'm out of town for the weekend..."
waiting for her to reply now. I think this one is into me.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sorry, I'm not an alcoholic, I don't really drink at all.Me: we can get drinks or gorge ourselved on the blood of our defeated enemies, your choiceI'm in an angry orchard kind of mood tbh.
That was a terrible reply, what the hell do you mean no alcohol!? Why on earth would you pass up a chance to get laid for a date that can't get you laid?
Coffee is a weekday thing, not a weekend thing anyway so I don't know why she'd expect it to be on a weekend. Not gonna go out on a friday night for coffee unless it's a sex euphemism
Also It's definitely NOT going well if she says she has plans before you even pick a day or time with no counter offer. Sounds like She's tired of trying to work around your busy schedule
It's time to stop playing games and get in the pvssy now, you are free whenever she is. Don't game yourself out of the pvssy like you're about to