backseatjuan
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never mind, I replied to a wrong thread. sleepy
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Reply: Hey sorry, I'll get back to you asapdaygame. Met new girl 2 days ago I'm pretending to be super busy these 3 days.
She asks: "Why so busy?" in Text
I replied: "When people know you it's hard not to be busy sometimes"
If you have a better reply or feedback. Go ahead and post them.
That reply is kinda awkward and makes you sound arrogant + rude, you should've been like "donald trump is flying me out to the white house" or "I've got a mission, They want me to come in and save america from terrorists again"daygame. Met new girl 2 days ago I'm pretending to be super busy these 3 days.
She asks: "Why so busy?" in Text
I replied: "When people know you it's hard not to be busy sometimes"
If you have a better reply or feedback. Go ahead and post them.
Me: we can get drinks or gorge ourselved on the blood of our defeated enemies, your choiceI asked if she has time to have coffee in the coming days. She replied the following. What do I say now.
It sounds like she doesn't want coffee so I said I'm open for other plans. I also don't drink alcohol. I prefer to avoid it at all cost.
That was a terrible reply, what the hell do you mean no alcohol!? Why on earth would you pass up a chance to get laid for a date that can't get you laid?since no one is helping me. I replied with
me: "no alcohol. Coffee should be fine"
her: "I have plan for the weekend already...."
me: "I'm out of town for the weekend..."
waiting for her to reply now. I think this one is into me.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sorry, I'm not an alcoholic, I don't really drink at all.Me: we can get drinks or gorge ourselved on the blood of our defeated enemies, your choiceI'm in an angry orchard kind of mood tbh.
That was a terrible reply, what the hell do you mean no alcohol!? Why on earth would you pass up a chance to get laid for a date that can't get you laid?
Coffee is a weekday thing, not a weekend thing anyway so I don't know why she'd expect it to be on a weekend. Not gonna go out on a friday night for coffee unless it's a sex euphemism
Also It's definitely NOT going well if she says she has plans before you even pick a day or time with no counter offer. Sounds like She's tired of trying to work around your busy schedule
It's time to stop playing games and get in the pvssy now, you are free whenever she is. Don't game yourself out of the pvssy like you're about to