I take it that ur 90 days is over.
I see I haven’t missed much.
Regale us with some stories.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your Purpose Is More Important Than Your Woman
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Regale us with some stories.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hush now boy.Just spaz telling people to live their "purpose," and then stand around and soak up the pvssy.
And don't be overly jealous that I can and you can't.
Your purpose is to get married, have kids, carry on your genes and be a productive member of society.
Mother nature will always weed out crap genes like single 4 life men sent on their way.
Serve your purpose as mother nature intended.
Mother nature will always weed out crap genes like single 4 life men sent on their way.
Serve your purpose as mother nature intended.
The only fools that follow SpAzzhats advice are the same incels that mother nature intended to weed their shiit tier genes out of existence anyway.Just spaz telling people to live their "purpose," and then stand around and soak up the pvssy.
They are doing as mother nature's feminine imperative had in store for them all along.
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user43770
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Right. I'm doing my best to be an outkast.Your purpose is to get married, have kids, carry on your genes and be a productive member of society.
Mother nature will always weed out crap genes like single 4 life men sent on their way.
Serve your purpose as mother nature intended.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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user43770
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Okay, little spazey. No more logic for you. You pooped out? You had a long day?Hush now boy.
And don't be overly jealous that I can and you can't.
You must seriously think that I even care.Okay, little spazey. No more logic for you. You pooped out? You had a long day?
So this is what these forums apparently have turned into. Sad to see.
Honestly, looking at this I (and probably anybody who has been out actually doing this stuff) can tell that a good amount of you aren't even remotely out practicing this in the real world. If you did, you wouldn't have time for such petty, silly squabbling. Of all the people that I know who are living a happy and connected life, including the men that are having a great time with women, NONE of them have the time or inclination to waste such time.
Seeing the absolutist terms in which some of you state things across the forums, seeing words like "incel" etc, tells me all that I need to know. Nothing will change for you while you just lurk on the internet learning and debating theory. Seriously.
You can't even argue and insult your way out of this because it's as obvious as a group of 400 lb guys pretending to be fitness experts. IT'S OBVIOUS.
I've said my piece here (intermittently over the years) but now, I'm done. This was like a depressing 20th-anniversary high school reunion. My intention here was to try to bring value from a place of having grown and seeing that it's possible. To encourage. And now I see that it doesn't matter, which is fine. No one has to agree with or like anything that I have to say. But, I HAVE ACTUALLY DONE IT...which is what this is all about, is it not?
If you feel that this is directed at you, I'm curious: What exactly are you trying to achieve? It's not success with women or in life, that's for sure. Best to be honest and own up to it.
Good luck to you all. I hope that you eventually decide to get off the internet, out of the basement and into the real world.
Honestly, looking at this I (and probably anybody who has been out actually doing this stuff) can tell that a good amount of you aren't even remotely out practicing this in the real world. If you did, you wouldn't have time for such petty, silly squabbling. Of all the people that I know who are living a happy and connected life, including the men that are having a great time with women, NONE of them have the time or inclination to waste such time.
Seeing the absolutist terms in which some of you state things across the forums, seeing words like "incel" etc, tells me all that I need to know. Nothing will change for you while you just lurk on the internet learning and debating theory. Seriously.
You can't even argue and insult your way out of this because it's as obvious as a group of 400 lb guys pretending to be fitness experts. IT'S OBVIOUS.
I've said my piece here (intermittently over the years) but now, I'm done. This was like a depressing 20th-anniversary high school reunion. My intention here was to try to bring value from a place of having grown and seeing that it's possible. To encourage. And now I see that it doesn't matter, which is fine. No one has to agree with or like anything that I have to say. But, I HAVE ACTUALLY DONE IT...which is what this is all about, is it not?
If you feel that this is directed at you, I'm curious: What exactly are you trying to achieve? It's not success with women or in life, that's for sure. Best to be honest and own up to it.
Good luck to you all. I hope that you eventually decide to get off the internet, out of the basement and into the real world.