"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It looks like this may be what happened:

Johnson approached Rollo a few years ago and convinced him that he wanted to steer the convention toward Red Pill speakers and content. Rollo believed he was sincere, so he helped him by bringing in speakers and providing guidance/direction.

A few years down the road, for whatever reason (probably ego and money) Johnson decided to take the content and direction toward a more purple pill message. As proof, just look at Bruno & this Alexander Cortes guy... seriously? And Rollo was probably vocal about staying on point with a red pill message and speakers. So Johnson & his sycophant boys conspired to dump Rollo.

It looks to me like Rollo even spoke to this before the shiz hit the fan:


I went to the first 21 con that Rollo helped Johnson put together. He did not strike me as a natural speaker when he presented. I spoke with him a few times, he was thoughtful and he chose his words carefully. He’s more the intellect type than a Tony Robbins type motivator. I also believe that he hasn’t come out with guns blazing about all this BS because it’s just not his style. I think he’s of the mind that the truth will eventually be clear to all.


-Augustus-
That's what he says. That it wil be clear in the coming months.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I first saw Rollo Tomassi's name appear on Sosuave, I'd assumed that he was Black, because I grew up watching (eh, I guess in my early teens) Sandford n' Son and there was a Rollo on that show. I had pictured Rollo Tomassi as a Wilt Chamberlain type figure, honest to God. I saw ya'll talking about him and the buzz was about him off-site. I never checked him out until I saw a vid of him on 21 convention. I then envisioned him as a sort of Zan Perrion.
 

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Update: some of those that are on Anthony Dream Johnson's side have been bashing Red Pill men. It clear they wanted to build their brand off red pill, then dump all over it.
Seems The Wet Dream Johnson is now a co-host. They also have TFM's former host Blob Smith and George "The Sultan of Sh!t" Bruno on Red Man and Red Line. It's getting bottom barrel now. For the record, I liked Bruno until he attacked Rollo. You'd think a 60 year old grandpa would act more like an adult. I like had Donavan doesn't take sides.
 

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Who wants to pay 2k if they can't ride the Red Pill Rollocoaster?
 

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Apparently there is some drama going on in The Red Man Group youtube channel. Suddenly Rollo Tomassi isn't going to the convention. Apparently Rollo Tomassi and Richard Cooper are no longer part of the group. No clue what happened. I don't worry myself over such things too much.

Made me curious. Has anyone here gone to one of these conventions? Was it any good? Seems like I can get all the info I need on here, books, videos, and other forums.
I don't know if they still do it, but they used to promote Objectivism.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rollo shared this screenshot on Twitter. So they accuse Rollo of doxxing their location in October 2018. Offer him the leading position of RMG in March 2029. Then kick him out May 2019 for an issue they brought back up. Yeah, they are liars. I knew it. I never liked any of them. AJAC gives sh1t fitness advice. George Bruno is a blue pill joke. ADJ is a con artist. Andrew Tate (aka Mr Plenty and former champion kickboxer) is a scammer selling his PHD course for 279 euros. He makes his money off camgirls.
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think this last screenshot from Rollo really says alot....
 

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They have released two hit piece videos attacking him some more today. He needs to go all in. End it Rollo!
 

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I take it that Rollo is still dragging his feet?
 

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I take it that Rollo is still dragging his feet?
Yep, he did release the above screenshot showing ADJ was offering for him to be CEO of Redman Group. That puts context on his email in the 2nd video where they try make it look like he was trying to take over. He needs to confront this head on in my opinion. I know he is passive, but come on now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yep, he did release the above screenshot showing ADJ was offering for him to be CEO of Redman Group. That puts context on his email in the 2nd video where they try make it look like he was trying to take over. He needs to confront this head on in my opinion. I know he is passive, but come on now.
Being passive is okay, there's greatness in it.

Masculinity on the other hand is a learned trait, with assertiveness being a component.

In this case he lacks assertiveness.
 

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Rational Male is still quite a good book imo on it's own merits.
What EXACTLY is in that book that you find valuable?

Is it skills you couldn't learn anywhere else?

Is it red pill ideas? If so, how, EXACTLY do those red pill ideas HELP you?

What differences in your behaviors have those red pill ideas affected?

What can you do NOW that you couldn't do BEFORE you read that book?

Do you make more money?

Live a healthier life?

Have more sex?

Or is the your life more or less the same, and the only thing that has changed as HOW you define the world you live in?
 

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I remember you! We were into the Polish girls. Still think they've got the best girl game btw. How you been getting on mate?
Good mate, you gave me good tips back then.

How do you see all this 21 Con controversy?
 

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Rollo pretty much says they are in it for money in a passive aggressive way here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Apparently there is some drama going on in The Red Man Group youtube channel. Suddenly Rollo Tomassi isn't going to the convention. Apparently Rollo Tomassi and Richard Cooper are no longer part of the group. No clue what happened. I don't worry myself over such things too much.

Made me curious. Has anyone here gone to one of these conventions? Was it any good? Seems like I can get all the info I need on here, books, videos, and other forums.
Rollo has lawyered up;


-Augustus-
 

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Wasted, much damage has been done with his earlier inaction.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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