"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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40 yo asking about marriage. Only reply if you are 35+ yo

escaleraroyal

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I'm 40 yo, financially stable, mastered game, and have a gf (31 yo). Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm 40 yo, financially stable, mastered game, and have a gf (31 yo). Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
Theres no rush to marriage. You can put a ring on her finger if shes been a loyal and committed woman for some years but take your time in marriage. Theres no race. There are a few states with favorable divorce laws. Consider them. Are her friends married? Are they cheating? What about her parents? Does she spend money, time and energy on you? How does she add to your life?
 

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Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
Maybe you should start by not asking irrelevant questions.

What are her measurements?

Is her mom fat?

What's her FICO?

What's her body count?

What's your body count?

What's her education?

What is her social circle like?

How many divorces in her social circle? In her family?

Does she love Jesus?

Do you love Jesus?

Do you share a Netflix account?

Do you check each other's emails?

Would she help you bury a body?

What if the body was her mother?

Would she give you a liver?

Would you give her a liver?

Does she like cats?

Do you like cats?

If she was blind, would you give her one of your eyes?

If she lost both arms and legs, would you carry her around or leave her on the side of the road?

If you lost all your money, and lost both arms and legs, would she work three jobs and still support you?

Would she still work to sexually satisfy you if you were broke and limbless?
 

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Maybe you should start by not asking irrelevant questions.

What are her measurements?

Is her mom fat?

What's her FICO?

What's her body count?

What's your body count?

What's her education?

What is her social circle like?

How many divorces in her social circle? In her family?

Does she love Jesus?

Do you love Jesus?

Do you share a Netflix account?

Do you check each other's emails?

Would she help you bury a body?

What if the body was her mother?

Would she give you a liver?

Would you give her a liver?

Does she like cats?

Do you like cats?

If she was blind, would you give her one of your eyes?

If she lost both arms and legs, would you carry her around or leave her on the side of the road?

If you lost all your money, and lost both arms and legs, would she work three jobs and still support you?

Would she still work to sexually satisfy you if you were broke and limbless?
This guy gets it, All of this is actually very relevant.

You didn't give enough facts about your situation for someone to give an objective answer.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Marry only if you want the government in your bed. Because, they fukk you too.
 

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Marry only if you want the government in your bed. Because, they fukk you too.
nah don't need marriage anymore anything more tehn 5 years together with her is enough to try to fuc|, you up on that, check your laws about it, in some only dating for 5 years with people knowing you was together is enough in some you need to live together for a certain number of years, hell in some place the years also difers so check it up

I'm 40 yo, financially stable, mastered game, and have a gf (31 yo). Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
will not answer irrelevant answers, but make one irrelevant question

if you mastered game and is financially stable, why the ****ing hell you want to marry a 31 Y.o? try to find a 21 and have fun
 

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Okay, the first question is she pushing for marriage? Even if she isn't it is still a bad idea. One thing that is the most attractive to a woman is a man who has options and plus also it scares the living **** out of them. I'm 48. Never married and no kids. Keep your options. I just turned 48 in April and I'm in the best shape of my life. I focus on me. Work, business, hobbies and into self-care more than ever now. This rubs on and other women notice. We are high priced free agents and they are the Montreal Expos who had to get rid off all their top players after the baseball strike in 1994. We are the prize. They are the baseball club that went under and then moved to Washington. Keep your options.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm 40 yo, financially stable, mastered game, and have a gf (31 yo). Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
Why?

According to the National Center for Health Statistics, about 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and about 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women. That 50 percent is often quoted and it is probably on the high side, but it is illuminating that 80 percent of the divorces are filed by the wife.

do you want to bring the state into your LTR?

Your being financially stable is enough reason not to marry.

If you "mastered" game, you wouldn't be posting about marrying a 31 yr old. You would have been busy swimming in *****, top form SMV 18-23. Not baby rabies. Epiphany phase.

After a decade +/- of cold approach pickup, i sure as ****kkk haven't mastered game. Rsd Tyler after what 2 decades wouldn't dare suggest such foolish sentiments.


Good luck either way. Given the prevalence of cucking and divorce rape, don't do it.
 

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I'm 40 yo, financially stable, mastered game, and have a gf (31 yo). Should I marry her? Do not reply with irrelevant answers.
Who are you to tell us not to reply with irrelevant answers?

Get us a reason to care, then we won’t.
 

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Any of you who replied dating a chick under 25? if no then i wont care reading all the replies.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too little background info to give a proper opinion on ur question OP.
 

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Let me ask you the most important question that I know of.

When you look at marriage, do you have that vision where there is team work and working together? How you answer will tell me everything I need to know about you.
 

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Let me ask you the most important question that I know of.

When you look at marriage, do you have that vision where there is team work and working together? How you answer will tell me everything I need to know about you.
I dunno.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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