Yes I am, but you didn’t answer my question. Where is the male moral code in sleeping with a married pregnant woman?
The OP is not claiming to have high morals, and admits he just wants to sleep with a hot chick. That doesn’t make him a low person but I don’t see where the moral code is here. You are claiming that men have these moral codes, in the context of a thread about a man who is planning to sleep with a pregnant married woman, so.... again, how is this moral code? Or do you define moral code as whatever makes someone feel good? Maybe we have different definitions of the word moral? I don’t know. Some examples would be helpful.
This is pretty simple actually. Moral codes come from perception. Women never fail to mention men as dogs. This is plain to see and doesn’t require any sense of intelligence.
From the average woman’s viewpoint, from her teenage years up until her present day, she is attracted to and sleeps with cads and cods.
So this is her fundamental experience. Naturally these guys don’t care about her or cheat on her or many other variations of this. This is a skewed vision of men. She is only talking about the men she has been attracted to. Rightly so.
Most men (the vast majority) are raised outside of that version of society. Their heads are filled with garbage and unworkable codes that submit him to a different version of sex game that is false. He’s a goody two shoes prancing along in an imaginary world of honor, codes and some knightly version of life.
Women are not encumbered with such nonsense. The deadbeat dad is crammed down his throat yet if a woman leaves him, he should have been a better husband and listened to her or followed her feelings and somehow glowed it right. She had “reasons” for leaving him that are socially valid.
I knew a hard working man who’s wife cheated on him. At first the women said they understood. A month or so later, he brought it up again. He was instantly **** down. The “alpha” woman there, a sex friend of mine, turned to him and said, “Oh get over it Tom. That was a month ago. Grow up.”
I was standing right there when she told him that. I looked around and all the other women had faces of disgust. He left.
Now in girl world, this is normal. The vast majority of men do not think that way. They have moral codes and interpretations and teachings from mommy and society that do not serve him.
When in fact, completely acceptable reason by woman code, ..she wanted to feel alive again. That’s woman speak for new sex partners and yummy girl feelings on the hunt.
It is impossible for you to understand the width and depth of this. You were never designed to think that way. Basically what all three girls are saying is that every time one of their girlfriends or even her, when they cheated on a boyfriend or husband...was that it was justifiable and they didn’t narc on their friends. He should have been a better man and kept her happy. That is a woman’s social moral code. If it wasn’t their moral code things would play out different.
The men who cheated and were mean were well less than 10% of men. We have a huge slice of observable conduct. You only have a tiny slice. Very tiny. You already know most men are outside sex qualifications so they aren’t even in the equation. So the comments are a mute discussion.
I know this is true because I asked some very well put together women. Many women. Yes, yes I know. Not all women are like that.