mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I got it. Your not the one dead center hit.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Need a woman's advice
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Idk what that means but aight
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You know the exact most fvcked up things to say.
But am I accurate? Or just needlessly mean?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You might be accurate at that exact instant. But if someone is making progress do they need to hear that?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Having to be this crafty isn’t progress, it might look like it, but the house of cards will fall Fast because it’s not genuine.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Agree. Foundations need to be solid and true.
Thanks for helping me summarize without being a total c*nt lol
backseatjuan
Banned
Well whatever. I'm testing things because I think this might work.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Seems like Naughty Ninja is up with his old tricks and some noobs fell for it.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.