mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I got it. Your not the one dead center hit.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need a woman's advice
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Idk what that means but aight
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You know the exact most fvcked up things to say.
But am I accurate? Or just needlessly mean?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You might be accurate at that exact instant. But if someone is making progress do they need to hear that?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Having to be this crafty isn’t progress, it might look like it, but the house of cards will fall Fast because it’s not genuine.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Agree. Foundations need to be solid and true.
Thanks for helping me summarize without being a total c*nt lol
backseatjuan
Banned
Well whatever. I'm testing things because I think this might work.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Seems like Naughty Ninja is up with his old tricks and some noobs fell for it.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.