mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I got it. Your not the one dead center hit.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Need a woman's advice
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Idk what that means but aight
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You know the exact most fvcked up things to say.
But am I accurate? Or just needlessly mean?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You might be accurate at that exact instant. But if someone is making progress do they need to hear that?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Having to be this crafty isn’t progress, it might look like it, but the house of cards will fall Fast because it’s not genuine.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Agree. Foundations need to be solid and true.
Thanks for helping me summarize without being a total c*nt lol
backseatjuan
Banned
Well whatever. I'm testing things because I think this might work.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Having your inbox full or almost full, if the system tells them about that, has a positive effect. That's checked and tested. Now I want to see if this gifts thing works. As far as men having gifts out there, I think I will be the only one. At least I haven't find any man profile with gifts.
Seems like Naughty Ninja is up with his old tricks and some noobs fell for it.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
Anyhow OP being popular online even if it's with fake likes etc doesn't really help you irl, it's just a stop-gap measure at best.
Best to work on ur real life popularity - increasing ur sphere of influence to pull in women.
You enhance ur sphere of influence through other men.
By getting other men to acknowledge and respect you is a sure fire way to increase ur influence - power.
Women will gravitate towards a man who has power.
Don't waste ur time creating fake female profiles like a nerd.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.