Yes, I felt the same about the ignoring of my request for her number. I just replied "We'll figure something out. Text me when you have some time. My cell is xxx-xxx-xxxx. Ball is in her court.
Listen.......dont take this as me trying to be a hard@ss. I am trying to help.
By sending her that, it WILL come across as VERY needy and I will tell you why:
1.) When you say "text me when you have some time" it is coming across as "Well I will be here when you are ready. I'll just be over here sitting around waiting". I know that you overtly didnt mean it to sound like that, but it WILL come across that way.
If the same situation happened with you and chick but the roles were reversed- she asked you the same thing and you dodged giving her your number....then she responds back with exactly what you sent.....you would think "this chick is desperate". You would also think "if she doesnt have a busy schedule and will just be there when I am ready, I probably dont want her".
Make sense?
Thats why I wouldnt have mentioned her number again. Ever. Just a "I will be at such and such place. Let me know if you can join".
That is putting the ball in her court and putting her on the spot to commit RIGHT NOW or to let me EASILY dismiss my interest in her.
2.) Then you gave her your number. You basically lost frame and lowered yourself below her. You gave her control. "Since you wont give me your number, here is mine". Thats how it comes across to her. I can promise you this.
What is strong framed about that? What is mysterious, edgy.......where is the abundance mindset?
You often get good advice from me and others on here, yet you go off and do something completely different. I can promise you that if I wanted to bang 50 chicks in 2019 I could do it with no problem. All would be attractive and meet most of what I look for in women. I dont have time for that and at the end of the day, I am looking for a potential LTR but I am in no rush. So 2-3 plates for the time being is perfect.
Point being- I chat up many chicks and I have done so for quite a while. I have learned that even through text, you have to convey a certain amount of masculinity and above all, have an outcome indifferent mindset. These chicks can sense stuff like that.
I went through a lot of trial and error in my text game until I got really good with it. I learned that it has to match my personality but even more so, my personality had to be on point first and foremost. Abundance. Outcome indifferent.