"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this chick I was seeing passed some really big test. I sent her a video congratulating her. I just found out from her Tuesday morning....told her how proud I was of her.

Wednesday evening I get a text from her saying “I think I’m too much of a princess for you. You were the only one who didn’t say we should celebrate”

The thing is I was planning on taking her out this weekend. And she responds with “no I don’t want to go anywhere anymore”

I really lost my temper with her and flipped because she pulls this **** on the regular. She’s 26 and can easily pick up the phone like a big girl and call me but expects me to read her mind.

IMO she should of at least waited until the weekend to see if I was going to take her out.

I could probably get her back if I try really hard and drop some money on a nice gift but I’m ready to say **** it have a nice life....she’s 26 and starts fights over minuscule issues via texts
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Serious question.......how many more threads are you going to make about this chick?
 

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How many chances does she get with you?

One more isnt going to fix things.
The issue is she never even sees it as her messing up. She sees me as the problem. She doesn’t communicate..she starts a fight...and sees me as the bad guy.
 

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I thought you said you was throwing in the towel in november?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I thought you said you was throwing in the towel in november?
I did...she contacted me again we hung out everything was good. I’m on the fence I don’t want to lose her but idk if I can fully commit to her either
 

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I did...she contacted me again we hung out everything was good. I’m on the fence I don’t want to lose her but idk if I can fully commit to her either
I'm on the fence with you, I can't tell if your a troll or just completely naive and oblivious to women and relationships, let me figure it out and I'll get back with you.
 

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You're got to accept that she doesn't respect you due to your leadership failures.

Once that happens, it cannot be fixed and it's time to let her go.
 

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You're got to accept that she doesn't respect you due to your leadership failures.
What do you mean ‘doesn’t respect him due to leadership failures?’
 

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What do you mean ‘doesn’t respect him due to leadership failures?’
Go back to his other threads and read it.

When a man loses frame = loses leadership.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The post is in this thread. I’m not losing frame!
OK.[/QUOTE]

This is the same girl with the same issues regardless of how many threads there is.

Btw why the need to have 2 accounts ?
 

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Go back to his other threads and read it.

When a man loses frame = loses leadership.
Not trying to brag or anything but I’ve ****ed a ton of women in my life. More than most guys. And what you say is true but not for all women. You can line 11 hot women up in a row...7 will like the cool player, the Don Juan.... 2 will like obsessive psychopaths, and 2 will like abusive *******s. You sound inexperienced tbh. Being a dj is effective for the majority but ever do everything right maintain frame and still lose the chick? Some women are into different things. Some hot women will even look for men with alpha physical characteristics and a beta personality so they can enjoy sex with him and slowly take his soul. Some women get off to it..some women are sick and enjoy hurting men. Bpd’s...usually very attractive, let me know how far you get with one being a player. You won’t...they need a host and an alpha dj is too strong.
 

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Not trying to brag or anything but I’ve ****ed a ton of women in my life. More than most guys. And what you say is true but not for all women. You can line 11 hot women up in a row...7 will like the cool player, the Don Juan.... 2 will like obsessive psychopaths, and 2 will like abusive *******s. You sound inexperienced tbh. Being a dj is effective for the majority but ever do everything right maintain frame and still lose the chick? Some women are into different things.
Well, I have to say, for someone who has the experience he claims to have, I'm curious as to why your in the current situation your in now?

Why is she able to disrespect you and treat you poorly, you leave, then all she has to do is "talk" to you and everything is ok again, then she goes back to treating you like sh!t and you fall for it over and over and over again.......

Care to explain?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, I have to say, for someone who has the experience he claims to have, I'm curious as to why your in the current situation your in now?

Why is she able to disrespect you and treat you poorly, you leave, then all she has to do is "talk" to you and everything is ok again, then she goes back to treating you like sh!t and you fall for it over and over and over again.......

Care to explain?
I do like her but also I would say a Lack of plates my brother. Around six months ago my job took over my life. And acquiring new plates takes free time. Gaming and meeting women takes time. I get out once a week if I’m lucky these days.
 

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Not trying to brag or anything but I’ve ****ed a ton of women in my life. More than most guys. And what you say is true but not for all women. You can line 11 hot women up in a row...7 will like the cool player, the Don Juan.... 2 will like obsessive psychopaths, and 2 will like abusive *******s. You sound inexperienced tbh. Being a dj is effective for the majority but ever do everything right maintain frame and still lose the chick? Some women are into different things. Some hot women will even look for men with alpha physical characteristics and a beta personality so they can enjoy sex with him and slowly take his soul. Some women get off to it..some women are sick and enjoy hurting men. Bpd’s...usually very attractive, let me know how far you get with one being a player. You won’t...they need a host and an alpha dj is too strong.
I was being diplomatic just now. So here's the truth;

Any man who has a modicum of experience with women knows what you're posted is pure BS.

You're more then likely to never had more then 4 women in ur entire existence.
 

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Not trying to brag or anything but I’ve ****ed a ton of women in my life. More than most guys. And what you say is true but not for all women. You can line 11 hot women up in a row...7 will like the cool player, the Don Juan.... 2 will like obsessive psychopaths, and 2 will like abusive *******s. You sound inexperienced tbh. Being a dj is effective for the majority but ever do everything right maintain frame and still lose the chick? Some women are into different things. Some hot women will even look for men with alpha physical characteristics and a beta personality so they can enjoy sex with him and slowly take his soul. Some women get off to it..some women are sick and enjoy hurting men. Bpd’s...usually very attractive, let me know how far you get with one being a player. You won’t...they need a host and an alpha dj is too strong.
It sounds like you'll act like a little bich if it keeps a hot woman around. Betas might occasionally get certain girls but they will never be happy.
 

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I do like her but also I would say a Lack of plates my brother. Around six months ago my job took over my life. And acquiring new plates takes free time. Gaming and meeting women takes time. I get out once a week if I’m lucky these days.
No need to put up with this women, move on until you find new plates, acquiring new plates might take some time but you're self respect comes first.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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