Focal core
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Yup thats true..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
when is the right time to say I LOVE U
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
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Love has different meaning to men and women.
For men it's an idea whilst for women it's a survival strategy.
Don't be delusional into thinking that humans have a unisex brain.
In the end, a man can only offer his version of love because that's what he's capable of.
For men it's an idea whilst for women it's a survival strategy.
Don't be delusional into thinking that humans have a unisex brain.
In the end, a man can only offer his version of love because that's what he's capable of.
Sneaky Pete
Don Juan
Do you think that never saying I love you to your then wife might have something to do with why you are no longer married?
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Make no mistake...
Saying isn't doing, and talk is cheap.
"Let God be true, and every man a liar."
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Lolz! The core of feminism.
Exactly. The feminization of the male population is superbly done.
lizardking82
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This guy and the way he talks is just...so beta. Wrong, wrong mindset, but OK, he seems so eager to talk about love and romance, more than a lot of women I know LOL
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Experience is the best teacher, but only a fool will have no other, try to learn from other people's mistakes
Start drooling again...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I agree to a certain degree. I think those may be pillars of many in the idea of love and what it really is and the makeup of it. Love is a multi faceted concept with many working components to it. Layers.
It’s more than just an idea for a man, and a survival tactic for a woman.
Multi faceted because it's an idea. Where do you think this idea was 1st mooted ?
From a biological standpoint men don't require love. Whilst women required it for survival since the dawn of time.
You'll notice women moving along quite fast when a husband dies.
And if you pay close attention, you'll even notice that a man's dog will be depressed and not eat properly after the passing of his master.
I've seen this play out more times then not. Perhaps 8 out of 10.
lizardking82
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Please, don't let this forum turn into a bunch of beta cucks discussing about love in "rosy" terms.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LMAO.
It's disgusting but don't worry, after they've been cuckold they'll turn in incel warriors on the crusade against mental illnesses.
corrector
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You can tell her after you've had a make-out session or french kissed her. If she's putting energy herself into the kiss where it feels like she's kissing you and she's sticking her tongue in your mouth then maybe it would sound more natural if it happened after that. If you are not that close to her than it will just make things too ackward.
you don't say it until she says it first! VERY important that's where I went wrong I said it first to my ex-wife led to think she's in control. never do it first and dont do it often. do it in sex. sparingly not every time and they want dont want too much availability...
and the more you have standards she can see the more she wants them from you thats the power ye have
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.