when is the right time to say I LOVE U

[orzi]

Greetings DJ, I often hear that it is a mistake to tell a girl you love her or to confess your felling to her, but then how are you going to get her as a girlfriend if you don't tell her you love her... Pls help

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Greetings DJ, I often hear that it is a mistake to tell a girl you love her or to confess your felling to her, but then how are you going to get her as a girlfriend if you don't tell her you love her... Pls help

I hope your having sex with this lady. I hope shes spending alot ofbtime with you. Shell tell you first.

 

[Focal core]

I hope your having sex with this lady. I hope shes spending alot ofbtime with you. Shell tell you first.

Fvck yeah thats nail it.

Love feels reciprocal.. It will be automatic like your toaster at home lol

 

[Skyline]

During sex.

Tell her everything when you're having sex with her. That's really the only way form which you won't lose any attraction.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

During sex.

Tell her everything when you're having sex with her. That's really the only way form which you won't lose any attraction.

Let her say it first. She shouldnt say it mirroring him. It should be real. If shes sexing you and loving your time show het in your actions. Make her miss you sometimes.

There's going to be a market for love. Everyone is running game and in bad marriages. You have to give them something to feel. Something powerful.

 

[orzi]

During sex.

Tell her everything when you're having sex with her. That's really the only way form which you won't lose any attraction.

Let her say it first. She shouldnt say it mirroring him. It should be real. If shes sexing you and loving your time show het in your actions. Make her miss you sometimes.

There's going to be a market for love. Everyone is running game and in bad marriages. You have to give them something to feel. Something powerful.

How am I going to have sex with her if shes not my GF

 

[Focal core]

Let her say it first. She shouldnt say it mirroring him. It should be real. If shes sexing you and loving your time show het in your actions. Make her miss you sometimes.

There's going to be a market for love. Everyone is running game and in bad marriages. You have to give them something to feel. Something powerful.

Very good advised.. Thumbs up.. Dont play games with women that already falls for you.. Treat her like a women she deserves to be and see if she does appreciate you..

 

[Focal core]

How am I going to have sex with her if shes not my GF

Then youre far from saying those magic words to her.. Maybe u missed the dating parts first?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How am I going to have sex with her if shes not my GF

Like anyone else. She has to have the interest.

 

[orzi]

Thanks for advice it looks like i still have a long way to go

 

[Spaz]

how are you going to get her as a girlfriend if you don't tell her you love her

1st a girl must admire and/or lust after you.

Have you dated her yet ?

 

[orzi]

1st a girl must admire and/or lust after you.

Have you dated her yet ?

No I haven't I was planning to ask her out on weekend, Im pretty sure she likes me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thanks for advice it looks like i still have a long way to go

Do shyt you love. Its inside you itll draw their interest.

 

[Spaz]

No I haven't I was planning to ask her out on weekend, Im pretty sure she likes me.

Then have courage and call her up.

Just say that you're going to the cinema this weekend and ask her to join you. Easy.

Don't talk abt love 1st.

If anything it's the girls that say that 1st never the guy.

 

[Focal core]

Dating first=is a evaluation for you and the gurl to escalate further.. Thats first stage..

After few dates let say 3, then she become your gf.. No i love you words at this phase.

Continue If intimacy deepens and the emotional connection happened between you two.. Then have her..wait those words from her and reciprocate.

 

[orzi]

Dating first=is a evaluation for you and the gurl to escalate further.. Thats first stage..

After few dates let say 3, then she become your gf.. No i love you words at this phase.

Continue If intimacy deepens and the emotional connection happened between you two.. Then have her..wait those words from her and reciprocate.

Thanx now im starting to see some light, No wonder girls distanced them self's after few dates. been in a situation where a lady asked me why am catching feeling fast then she stopped answering my calls.

 

[Focal core]

Thanx now im starting to see some light, No wonder girls distanced them self's after few dates. been in a situation where a lady asked me why am catching feeling fast then she stopped answering my calls.

Exactly.. Theres nothing wrong in catching feelings.. Keep it to yourself, it shows your genuine intentions towards them.. Just play it smart

 

[Skyline]

During sex is the only safe way. Wihout her saying it first.

That's why having sex with a girl is important. Fvck her good and let out all that affectionate stuff you've been building up.

 

[guru1000]

I don’t remember saying the love word in the last 10+ years, even when I was married—nor have I had a desire to.

To desire to profess your love to a girl you have never dated is a character flaw, rooted in neediness and your lack of options. The more options you have the less you feel inclined to profess love, project your feelings onto her, or to develop such feelings to begin with.

I encourage you to get to the root of the problem, which are (lack of) options. Stick around and learn.

As to love itself, I do believe the word itself is misused by individuals in the early stages. Real love takes years to manifest and grows over time with a giving partner that often puts your needs in front of theirs.

 

[Focal core]

Im listening to celine sion.. I love you... Drooliing now lol