my cousin there, the blonde, none of her previous boyfriends are half as good looking as i am
mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto
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mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Everyone has dreams and nightmares, and yes, sometimes you hear voices within your dreams or nightmare. You don't ever dream when you fall asleep?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
And the crowd goes wild
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol
we'll see if it leads to anything
I'm very very attracted to both her and the one in New York but I can't wrap my mind around the logistics of starting something with either of them
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it simple. If she has lust then sex.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it down. Very few guys are able to use the over talking approach to break thru. The rest of us will kill interest.
Verify interest for a next meetup. Verify she thinks your attractive and when you see her escalate. Try to get intimate
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Once you got it setup that she thinks your cool and the next meetup your good.
I think you fly her to you so shes on your turf.
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You wish.Yeah and it's all 100% bullsh-t.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Does your senior center internet connection have a data cap? It doesn't look like it lol
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Opinions on what? There isn't really anything more to say at the present moment because nothing has happened.
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
why the fuq did you start this thread if you already knew what you were going to do?
jiminy christmas what a drama queen.
Definitely DO NOT call this woman. You'll make her uncomfortable just by texting her. That's how much your desperation reeks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.