"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trump... Epitome of alpha.

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I'm not in the mood to get into the whole alpha debate about Trump but I can tell you this much first hand. My daughter and I went to a Trump rally in 2016. We were within 6 x feet of him. The man has a presence like no other. A commanding, dominant, and positive presence like I have seen from no other human being. The positive energy in the room was off the charts. People were mesmerized; men, women, and children. Call it alpha. Call it whatever. But I was there and there was definitely more to it than just a guy talking to a crowd.
A naturally dominant man will exude a commanding presence.

Trump has it.

No one can fake that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trump is definatley not an alpha male, he does not have the alpha male looks. However, Trump is a business man.
Dude, lay off the big blockbuster hollywood movies. Napoleon Bonaparte was 5'7". Ghengis Khan appears as a chubby faced, neck bearded, little man in many depictions. I don't know many women, that would consider Adolph Hitler to have possesed "alpha male looks". What do looks have to do with it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's even more reassuring to be able to understand why his strategy works.
Yeah, but he seems to lack the most basic of political skills. After his adventures abroad, he comes back to a complete mess in America... having to obfuscate and back-track... and God knows what.

I think the disaster with Putin stemmed from his egoism - all he could see was himself playing to his domestic base, and looking to defend himself on the stage against 'collusion'. He forgot that he was also supposed to be an international statesman representing the general interests of America.:D
 

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What mess and what disaster are you referring to?

As far as I see, the Putin summit was a full success.

Mueller has an invitation to seek justice from the Russian individuals who allegedly "interfered" in an election, and likewise Putin would be able to investigate here in the US.

Working together is a success, not a failure.
Lol, you’re celebrating the destruction of America as a republic. If you love Russias quasi dictatorship so much go move there. Trump wants to be Putin.
 

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I'm not in the mood to get into the whole alpha debate about Trump but I can tell you this much first hand. My daughter and I went to a Trump rally in 2016. We were within 6 x feet of him. The man has a presence like no other. A commanding, dominant, and positive presence like I have seen from no other human being. The positive energy in the room was off the charts. People were mesmerized; men, women, and children. Call it alpha. Call it whatever. But I was there and there was definitely more to it than just a guy talking to a crowd.
Put down the kool aid my friend. The people were mesmerized because they’re part of a cult. He’s a great salesman I’ll give him that. He’s also a disaster. It’s pretty obvious he’s broke and his ties to Russia involve money laundering.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Put down the kool aid my friend. The people were mesmerized because they’re part of a cult. He’s a great salesman I’ll give him that. He’s also a disaster. It’s pretty obvious he’s broke and his ties to Russia involve money laundering.
:rolleyes:
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We will just have to agree to disagree. Good day Sir.
Disagree with what? Be specific.

Russian meddling in the election?
Trump siding with Putin over the FBI and CIA?
Meullers’ criminal indictments of Paul Manafirt and other Trump campaign officials?

Which ones do you disagree with?
 

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Disagree with what? Be specific.

Russian meddling in the election?
Trump siding with Putin over the FBI and CIA?
Meullers’ criminal indictments of Paul Manafirt and other Trump campaign officials?

Which ones do you disagree with?
I didn’t know any of those specific topics were on the table in this thread. I only mentioned the Trump rally that I went to with my daughter and what I thought of his character as a man. Not his politics. We will have to discuss the rest of those topics another time. The stock market just closed and I need to go check and see how rich I am today. Yeah right Lefty! Ok now I may be sipping too much Koolaide!
 

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This bull market has been going on 9 years now. But you’ll credit this to Trump, right?
I’ve only been trading stocks for 2 1/2 years. I don’t credit anybody but myself for the money I make. Which is not a lot yet but I’m getting better.
 

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As far as I see, the Putin summit was a full success.
It was a full success for Putin. Russia's international goals are to create instability by weakening alliances, and then fill the resulting power vacuum with Russian influence. Now Trump is doing all of that for them.

Can you imagine working at the FBI or CIA, and seeing your president, on an International stage, tell the world that he believes a KGB agent over all of his own people? Morale could not possibly be lower, I'm sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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