Do I need to relax my standards on women's body?

[bigdave17]

I'm only really attracted to women who are both fit and curvy - you guys know the type I am talking about - the instagram models with thick muscular legs and fat asses.

the problem is

1)I only see those women consistently at gyms, where an approach is very difficult because they're all wearing headphones

2)I can find them on dating sites but then, I'm basically looking for attractive 25 year olds with no kids/nice personality/decent job/classy and smart who also have great bodies on dating sites...every man on the planet wants that. How am I gonna stand out among the 848484448484844884 men messaging her? I'm only about a 7 in pics. Im sure there will be tons of 10/10 males messaging that

3)Outside of gyms and online dating, where else am I gonna find what I want?

so then the question becomes, do I settle for a very cute girl with great personality but with average body and try to get her in fantastic shape? I see tons of italian and Latin girls (that's my type, I love dark features) who would look fantastic after training properly for 9 months. They just dunno what the hell they're doing in the gym. Would most women be open to adopting my lifestyle?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's hard to meet them in the gym. If you do yoga though you will socialize for a small bit just before and just after the class lets out. I wouldn't try to meet anyone in the main workout area's get your work done, no one wants to be interrupted.

 

[bigdave17]

It's hard to meet them in the gym. If you do yoga though you will socialize for a small bit just before and just after the class lets out. I wouldn't try to meet anyone in the main workout area's get your work done, no one wants to be interrupted.

you know what, people say that, but I've made plenty of friends even talking to people who are wearing their headphones. i'll just make a casual comment about surroundings and go from there. I'm very likeable instantly so that probably helps.

but it's much much easier making male friends than getting women to go out with you on a date

 

[mrgoodstuff]

you know what, people say that, but I've made plenty of friends even talking to people who are wearing their headphones. i'll just make a casual comment about surroundings and go from there. I'm very likeable instantly so that probably helps.

but it's much much easier making male friends than getting women to go out with you on a date

In yoga there is a socializing component of standing in line before and after that gets you close to the people in the room. So you will notice people who come for that same class and may be some opportunity to exchange numbers. A good hookup in the gym is if they have a juice or smoothie bar in the gym, mention in your convo your going to grab you one. Maybe they might join you.

And women with bodies like that are a dime a dozen too. For the americans it will be former ex high school and collegiate atheletes. There are plenty of them, but they are usually tight to a social circle and follow the pecking order.

From the info I have now, I think we need to first worry about being "players" before even worrying about a relationship. Women are just so used to it. And no reason to want a relationship unless she adds to you greatly. A good looking and sex is not enough. She's gotta add to you and consistently support and have your back.

 

[bigdave17]

In yoga there is a socializing component of standing in line before and after that gets you close to the people in the room. So you will notice people who come for that same class and may be some opportunity to exchange numbers. A good hookup in the gym is if they have a juice or smoothie bar in the gym, mention in your convo your going to grab you one. Maybe they might join you.

And women with bodies like that are a dime a dozen too. For the americans it will be former ex high school and collegiate atheletes. There are plenty of them, but they are usually tight to a social circle and follow the pecking order.

From the info I have now, I think we need to first worry about being "players" before even worrying about a relationship. Women are just so used to it. And no reason to want a relationship unless she adds to you greatly. A good looking and sex is not enough. She's gotta add to you and consistently support and have your back.

I'm not getting into a relationship with anybody unless they're genuinely a fantastic person through and through

and women with bodies like that are nowhere near dime a dozen, what are you smoking bro? 90% of women nowadays are either fat or frumpy/avg bodies

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm not getting into a relationship with anybody unless they're genuinely a fantastic person through and through

and women with bodies like that are nowhere near dime a dozen, what are you smoking bro? 90% of women nowadays are either fat or frumpy/avg bodies

Depends upon where you look . If you look around gym or dance classes a lot of the ladies will be built. Check out title boxing too, they have like 60-80% females in many of the classes. I said yoga as well, yoga is mostly females.

 

[bigdave17]

Depends upon where you look . If you look around gym or dance classes a lot of the ladies will be built. Check out title boxing too, they have like 60-80% females in many of the classes. I said yoga as well, yoga is mostly females.

still very small percentage of general population

 

[mrgoodstuff]

still very small percentage of general population

It's enough of them.

 

[R.U.G.]

Becareful with yoga classes. You have hot women in really tight clothes, but you also have large hippos in those tights too. The good with the bad...

 

[MrWood]

you guys need to come to Finland

 

[R.U.G.]

you guys need to come to Finland

Yea...

https://www.instagram.com/p/BhZrbzIDFpZ/?tagged=finnishgirl

 

[Paarth Shah]

I'm only really attracted to women who are both fit and curvy - you guys know the type I am talking about - the instagram models with thick muscular legs and fat asses.

the problem is

1)I only see those women consistently at gyms, where an approach is very difficult because they're all wearing headphones

2)I can find them on dating sites but then, I'm basically looking for attractive 25 year olds with no kids/nice personality/decent job/classy and smart who also have great bodies on dating sites...every man on the planet wants that. How am I gonna stand out among the 848484448484844884 men messaging her? I'm only about a 7 in pics. Im sure there will be tons of 10/10 males messaging that

3)Outside of gyms and online dating, where else am I gonna find what I want?

so then the question becomes, do I settle for a very cute girl with great personality but with average body and try to get her in fantastic shape? I see tons of italian and Latin girls (that's my type, I love dark features) who would look fantastic after training properly for 9 months. They just dunno what the hell they're doing in the gym. Would most women be open to adopting my lifestyle?

Hell No. You maintain your standards. You go for the nice abs, big tits, and preferably with a belly ring / tramp stamp (I like em kinda slutty but trying to be good). If you ugly as hell, then you need to work on getting ripped and/or getting rich.

 

[bigdave17]

you guys need to come to Finland

northern European women look old by like 35-45

I'm all about Spanish/Italian/Greek/Middle Eastern/Puerto Rican/Mexican/South American women

 

[bigdave17]

Hell No. You maintain your standards. You go for the nice abs, big tits, and preferably with a belly ring / tramp stamp (I like em kinda slutty but trying to be good). If you ugly as hell, then you need to work on getting ripped and/or getting rich.

did you read the thread bro?

I'm good looking, ripped and rich...but I'm only about a 7/10 in the face which makes it difficult to do online dating

 

[Roober]

You need to quit spending so much time on SS and fix your head...

 

[zekko]

You need to quit spending so much time on SS and fix your head...

Totally agree.
As much as I enjoy it here, I think SS (or any other type of seduction material) can mess up your head, just as easily as it can help.

 

[top gear]

you're attracted to cosmetic enhancement.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

you're attracted to cosmetic enhancement.

And his male friends

 

[bigdave17]

you're attracted to cosmetic enhancement.

no im not

i just like a woman who is both curvy and athletic

 

[MrWood]

my anaconda dont want none... unless its got buns, hun