"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do I need to relax my standards on women's body?

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Girl in question is the least high maintenance girl I have ever been with. Provided you have high enough value and they arent crazy, hot chicks, contrary to what this site tells you (and apparently your own experience), are suprisingly easy to deal with. They are generally more positive and fun to be around precisely because they've never had to deal with the baggage ugly chicks get handed.

It's all about perception. Women don't mess around with guys they view as scarce unless they are mentally unstable, insecure or have no interest in monogamy. Been with this girl for 6 months now. Zero sh*t tests.
Got a pic?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I know the feel. I deserve way better looking chicks than currently desire me. Problem is, said chicks don't really exist in this area EXCEPT at the gym. And you don't talk to girls in the gym. You just don't. They aren't there to socialize, or make new friends or to get stronger or more athletic. They are there to get attention and make themselves feel like they are hot on IG or some ****. It's ****ing retarded. I actually want to just **** every single semi-decent chick I see, especially because I'm 19 now. This type of stuff pisses me off. And I know for a fact that it isn't me, I've improved far too much for it to be me. I got girls when I was much worse off, and now that I'm better I don't? Hahaha, life sure has a great sense of humor. Too many inconveniences happened that stopped all opportunities of me getting women. I'm not around them enough to where they'll deal with me. And the ones that are in my area are stuck up af and think they deserve men equivalent to models or famous celebrities. They can go **** themselves. RIP life.
 

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I have been involved with women that look similar, it's just extremely unstable and high maintenance. I'm more about my sweet spot, low maintenance.



You think she's a 6?
7 with nice body . She's going to chat up 20+ guys a day. Doesn't mean any will be
I know the feel. I deserve way better looking chicks than currently desire me. Problem is, said chicks don't really exist in this area EXCEPT at the gym. And you don't talk to girls in the gym. You just don't. They aren't there to socialize, or make new friends or to get stronger or more athletic. They are there to get attention and make themselves feel like they are hot on IG or some ****. It's ****ing retarded. I actually want to just **** every single semi-decent chick I see, especially because I'm 19 now. This type of stuff pisses me off. And I know for a fact that it isn't me, I've improved far too much for it to be me. I got girls when I was much worse off, and now that I'm better I don't? Hahaha, life sure has a great sense of humor. Too many inconveniences happened that stopped all opportunities of me getting women. I'm not around them enough to where they'll deal with me. And the ones that are in my area are stuck up af and think they deserve men equivalent to models or famous celebrities. They can go **** themselves. RIP life.

If they got a yoga class in your gym do that. It gives an opportunity to socialize before and after the activitiy.
 

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I don't get why all girls don't workout. Don't they realize that them working out is like the equivalent of us making a million dollars and having a good body in terms of smv?
When they have 5 orbiters, filters applied to their pics to make them look prettier, and averaging 85 likes a pic on social media while they are still out of shape why would they? Couple that with the fact that many men don't mind dating these fatties and there ya go! They simply have zero incentive to put in that kind of effort.
 

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When they have 5 orbiters, filters applied to their pics to make them look prettier, and averaging 85 likes a pic on social media while they are still out of shape why would they? Couple that with the fact that many men don't mind dating these fatties and there ya go! They simply have zero incentive to put in that kind of effort.
Two of my female friends use filters to make skin look younger and more vibrant. In reality it's a bit parched and pock marked. One had serious acne and filter gave her perfectly smooth skin . Some of them have some magic on the eyeballs. And others get waist and things gaps modded .
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't get why all girls don't workout. Don't they realize that them working out is like the equivalent of us making a million dollars and having a good body in terms of smv?
I'm going to partially disagree here. It's definitely important for a girl to work out as they get older, and an athletic look can be appealing on a woman. But I think it's youth that naturally makes a woman's body so appealing - soft, perky, elastic. As long as she is in the right weight range, a women will go through a period of time where she is at her most sexually appealing.

They can hang on to some of that by staying in shape (although diet is probably the most important factor). But a muscular girl with abs is not quite the same as a young natural body, although a lot of guys will go for that look.
 

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I'm going to partially disagree here. It's definitely important for a girl to work out as they get older, and an athletic look can be appealing on a woman. But I think it's youth that naturally makes a woman's body so appealing - soft, perky, elastic. As long as she is in the right weight range, a women will go through a period of time where she is at her most sexually appealing.

They can hang on to some of that by staying in shape (although diet is probably the most important factor). But a muscular girl with abs is not quite the same as a young natural body, although a lot of guys will go for that look.

in terms of strictly body and not face, I would take brandi love and her 45 year old super toned body over a 20 year old who is just avg
 

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and women with bodies like that are nowhere near dime a dozen, what are you smoking bro?
You've got to consider where he's at. I'm not far from where he's at, but in Oklahoma. I think there's a higher ratio of the type of woman that you posted in the pic down here. It's not uncommon to see women built exactly like that at the supermarkets, parks, gyms, post office, etc. and I live in a much smaller area, than DFW. Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas all have a decently high concentration of these types. I'm thinking it must be the cornbread.
 
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