"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I actually got a hot match on OLD. What to do?
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BeExcellent
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Do it.
RichardTheFrog
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Match.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Don't take it personal, she'll probably unmatch after 10 messages.
I get matched with babes daily, know how many dates i've gotten with these hotties? Around 0.
Like some guy said on this forum once (paraphrasing) : "Girls on OLD only want uberchads"
You'll have much better luck if you lower your standards juuuust a little a bit, i'm 23 and i'm nearly giving up on hot girls haha.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RichardTheFrog
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But I'm rich, though. Or I will be.
I already know she's just a little girl. She's only 18. I don't take her too seriously.
I can't force myself to like ugly girls.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Not saying ugly, just telling you to avoid the models.
RichardTheFrog
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Why? I'm in their league and it has nothing to do with looks.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/6dktty66w0bhxtn/Screenshot_2018-03-20-17-03-39.png?dl=0
That's an 18 year old kid.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
She looks like easy sex, and a little nuts too, sadly, my kinda girl.
RichardTheFrog
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So how do I get the easy sex?
She doesn't look crazy to me. I'm crazy as fvck. I've been to State Mental Hospitals, etc. Which is another reason why I'm in the league of 10s
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
90% of matches even if you had hot profile are:
- bots
- attention whoring teens promoting instagram or not promoting
- girls that will even message u first but wont actually agree for date
I think i get only 10% matches to date
and recently much more than before.. before tinder just made me insecure af lol now its actually ego boost for me when i stopped autoswipping
but i have bad feeling the better looking girl is the more b1tchy she is. i hate it
imo hot girls on there look only for 10/10 men. the attention they get must be ridiculous. i get a headache if 10 girls are texting me in the same time. imagine about such hot girls.
i wouldnt even text 10/10 girl. in fact i swipe left all 9-10/10 girls
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Go out, be positive and fun, and don't be all over them? Every 10 girl i go out with, at least 8 want sex for a second "date" and i don't even kiss or touch them on the first, EVER.
Conquer the head and the body will follow.
RichardTheFrog
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Yea, and the reality is that I have tons of other things to do. Like that million dollar business I'm trying to get off the ground.
But I think I still come off as needy in these situations.
What would YOU send as the first message?
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Uberchads...hahaha that was my terminology I believe
I'd say instead of lowering standards, go for cute girls in RL rather than OLD or Tinder/Bumble, whatever. I'm only using OLD at the moment because I'm so bloody busy it's my only option. But it knocks your "attractiveness rating" down at least 5 points with most girls IMO. If you're 8/10 in real life, girls will treat you like a 3/10. Girls online are so unrealistic and tend to be damaged or narcissists in my experience.
Whereas in RL you immediately stand out just for talking to a girl, and you're going to come across as attractive if you've worked on your physique etc. regardless of whether the light is catching you right and all the BS that has to swing your way for a photo to look as good as you do in person.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
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If she turns out to be a tranny, don't beat yourself up too much about it. That sort of thing is common in Florida, and it could happen to anyone.
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I'm crazy as fvck. I've been to State Mental Hospitals, etc. Which is another reason why I'm in the league of 10s
This should be on your dating profile. I once had one along these same lines. It was totally sarcastic and funny, but that didn't matter. It attracted a lot of women because they saw it as humorous and I think many could relate.
This should be on your dating profile. I once had one along these same lines. It was totally sarcastic and funny, but that didn't matter. It attracted a lot of women because they saw it as humorous and I think many could relate.
RichardTheFrog
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Instead of starting a new thread, I'll post about a different match I got.
I typed guru's opener... She responded with...
"Hey there. I'm Jo"
What would you say next?
I know this seems obvious, but I'm trying to break this down to the basics. This is Tinder. I'm used to SA where it's okay to be more forward. There's nothing in guru's texts that makes sense to say in this situation.
I typed guru's opener... She responded with...
"Hey there. I'm Jo"
What would you say next?
I know this seems obvious, but I'm trying to break this down to the basics. This is Tinder. I'm used to SA where it's okay to be more forward. There's nothing in guru's texts that makes sense to say in this situation.