Ignore. Delete. Do nothing else."Not perished in the snow yet?".
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Ignore. Delete. Do nothing else."Not perished in the snow yet?".
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She is wanting to see if she still has you on a string. She is looking for validation while her BF is 3 hours away.She's messaged again asking if I want to do something this weekend.
Considering her boyfriend lives about three hours away, you'd think she would be spending the weekends with him. It's almost as If just picks and chooses when he wants to see her, almost as if he's after something......
You don't love her anymore and I'm guessing u don't find her quite as attractive as before.Banging other girls is definitely the way forward. I haven't seen my ex since Jan 14th, we broke NC 2.5 weeks ago to basically argue over text (well, more her telling me what a selfish low value human being I am) to which I told her I'm seeing someone new and never truly loved her (felt good doing that).
I still find myself thinking about her, missing the good times, even though I've found a hotter, better girl and banged several others in the last 6/7 weeks. Something keeps making me think about this ex.
HahahaHey SoSuave dudes... MrWood is back.
Some of you may have read my postings here, given advice and support. (thank you bro's)
I am 100% certain I would be much worse off had I never found this place!
This an update and opinion post, so take it for what its worth.
1st.
NC works for all that you want. first to yourself always.
NC saves souls, not relationships.
IF SHE contacts you, it is YOUR choice to do, or not do ANYTHING
In my case 9mo passed, I accepted her reach out contact and we got back together
Things we mostly good... but her interest was never as it had been, infrequent calls and messages...
After 1.5 yr she has simply "poof", gone again... no warning, no nothing. Just after a fabulous 10days in Italy
She was my "ghost", she haunted me with what if... her smile, her t1ts, her pvssy
GHOSTS are DEAD. GHOSTS are what you think an ALIVE person has become... GHOSTS do not exist
2nd.
Use SoSuave to LEARN about basic female behavior, no need for full red pill, but grow your balls!
Use the tactics from the gurus and alphas... give/take,push/pull, scarcity.
Use NC type tactics in your text game, you are a busy man... doing what? Who cares as long as they are wondering.
3rd.
BE THE MAN
Lead and she will follow. I literally tell girls that "I am the man, take my arm and follow my lead".
*girls eat this up, but you MUST follow this up solidly.
WOMEN want to be girls, treat them and tell them this is what they are.
YOU are a MOUNTAIN, they are butterflies... nothing they can do can MOVE YOUR MOUNTAIN (sh1t tests)
WOMEN love confidence, they NEED you to be confident in yourself... this hurts them when they dump you
(too bad they realize this only after jumping on the flashy and shining carousel of c0cks)
4th.
She WILL stuff her cun7 with c0cks and not tell you... take her back and she has 0 respect in you...
She will leave you again. but... Still love her???
Enjoy used pvssy? Are you a cuck?
She SPREAD HER LEGS to some dude without a simple CARE to YOU.
She is not your friend, friends do not treat you with selfish disregard
5th.
YOUR pain is real. YES it is fvcked...
You will transcend... become STRONGER not bitter
Thank her for showing you... your balls. (that red pill helps the swelling go down)
SO true. It's the bond, the feeling of closeness, the shared happiness and sadness. The way she cared for me, took days off work and booked an art gallery for us to go to on my mums bday (my mum was an artist). The many little things she did that I took for granted.You don't love her anymore and I'm guessing u don't find her quite as attractive as before.
What's now left is the bond you both shared.
The bond is always the last to go. Do not mistake your bond with her equals love. It is not.
I can guarantee that any couple who has been together for 1 year or more will hv deep rooted bond between them.
Even when ur ex made the decision to leave you she will likely take about a year to remove most but not all the bonds that used to bind u 2 together.
Don't rush into another relationship. S€x with women is fine and normal but NO relationships until your bond with your ex has diminished to almost nothing.SO true. It's the bond, the feeling of closeness, the shared happiness and sadness. The way she cared for me, took days off work and booked an art gallery for us to go to on my mums bday (my mum was an artist). The many little things she did that I took for granted.
Anyway, just kicked a girl out of my house 11:23am Sunday, she didn't want to leave, hb8 that turns to a hb 6 in the morning, yuk, I'm back to not wanting her now. Shame as I introduced her to everyone one Friday and they loved her. Just not hot enough for me and too clingy (I literally had to lie and say I had family coming over to get rid of her today).
Moved in after 6 weeks? WTF, people seem to move in so damn fast now, I'm sure it'll all go down the toilet with that kind of rush, so take some solace from that.Heard through the grapevine that the new guy has moved in. They've been officially dating for 6 weeks.