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Delete her off all social media. Delete email and phone number. Why do you want to punish yourself by looking at her social media?Day 6
I miss her like crazy. I was doing ok until I made the mistake of looking through her social media to see what she has been up to. It sucks seeing that she seems just fine, while I'm here thinking about her every day. I've been doing things to get my mind off of her but there's always going to be a time during the day where I'm alone and I'll be thinking about her and missing her. I want to message her again so bad but I know it's going to make me feel much worse. Still hoping she'll message me soon.
I'm doing better. Would've been day 33 of NC but I broke it in the first of this month. I asked her for one last favor then I said I'd never bother her again. We haven't spoken since and I'm back on my gym grind.Delete her off all social media. Delete email and phone number. Why do you want to punish yourself by looking at her social media?
It's not childish. You are protecting yourself from possible pain and agony. at least delete her. You will find yourself creeping back to take a look when she posts about her great new relationship. Seems like you are a glutton for punishment.I'm doing better. Would've been day 33 of NC but I broke it in the first of this month. I asked her for one last favor then I said I'd never bother her again. We haven't spoken since and I'm back on my gym grind.
And I don't want to block her or anything. It seems childish.
If only it was that easy. We have a mutual friend (who's my best bud), and unless he's willing to delete/block her, I can't really delete her without feeling down. I don't want to ask him to do so either cause it makes me feel weak.It's not childish. You are protecting yourself from possible pain and agony. at least delete her. You will find yourself creeping back to take a look when she posts about her great new relationship. Seems like you are a glutton for punishment.
I was in your position two years ago. You aren't special. Many people have been where you are. Delete..... Block....forget.......
NC - Day 63NC - Day 45
After reading this thread for a couple of weeks, I finally decided to share my own experience of the no contact challenge. It was very difficult at first... The first time I started it, I managed to last about a week before texting her. She replied and we actually went to the movies a couple of days later where she showed very confusing body language - rubbing legs against mine, etc. after telling me only a week ago that we can only be friends. Didn't act on any of it as it felt like complete bullsh*t. Anyway... fast forward a couple of days, we were texting again and I made the mistake of telling her how badly I felt after she friendzoned me. She got quite upset and started accusing me that I want to make her feel bad about her decision to stay only friends. 45 days since then there hasn't been any contact, regardless of how much I had to fight with myself to reach this point. She was ghosting me for a while up until about two weeks ago when she started liking stuff I post on Facebook and watching my stories on Messenger. It is amazing what a single like can do to someone... anyway, she didn't stop then and yesterday continued to do this (liking a couple of my posts). I don't really need this fake attention so today I gathered the courage to remove her from all social media and get this over with.
What I can say to the other guys who are reading: just remove HER from all social media you use and do not check her profiles anywhere. It won't help you in any way, even worse - it will set you back massively in overcoming her.
I will try to report back for Day 60. Wish me luck, almost there!
Older guy here (54). I'm sure its on here somewhere but there are lots of pages.
Take it from experience, there isn't a 60 day challenge.
If your girlfriend dumps you, you simply ask her nicely not to contact you again and then NEVER EVER contact her again for ANY reason.
No calls, no texts, no social media - Delete everything.
Do not respond to her again NEVER EVER for ANY reason.
Women get one chance. If they blow it they regret it. Under no circumstances, no matter how bad it feels at the time you are Steve McQueen/James Bond and John Wayne all rolled into one.
Its like you are dead to them and they are dead to you.
Then you get back on the horse, ride into town and get a new woman - A better one!
Women with integrity do not go behind your back. They communicate that they are unhappy and ask you to work it out with them. Then its up to you.
A monkey is going to swing. Would you **** a monkey?
Day 3:Day 0:
Today I informed her that I was not interested in simply being her friend, which I initially offered (against everything I stand for), but that I was only interested in a romantic relationship.
I deleted her from social media, including Facebook, and I’m now initiating the 60 day challenge, which will preferably cure me of this Ego driven obsession of her.
After one and a half year with her, I’m not oblivious to the fact that it’ll initially be challenging, but I’m hoping that I’ll come over her using the tips from this post. Not being reminded daily of her through social media will definitely help!
Go!
Man that is some funny ****e.The thought of her with someone else hit me straight in the heart and I just broke down (not in tears), but I couldn’t concentrate about the naked girl in my bed.
Honestly? It is a pathetic reaction and I know it.Man that is some funny ****e.
You'll hopefully look back in a month's time and have a good chuckle at what you wrote.
I have faith in you that you can pick yourself up from this tail spin and never feel this way again.
Don't be so hard on yourself. Hopefully you can laugh about it or at least analyze it with some cold emotions at a later date...Honestly? It is a pathetic reaction and I know it.
Look back at the past to extract the lesson, vow never to repeat it and let it go WITHOUT the self condemnation. This is a valuable skill.I mainly keep this journal for myself, so that I can return and cringe at the past.
Prepare for them before hand. Just like the Stoics and The Buddhists meditate on death, failure and loss..........they not only accept themTo this day, "Break-ups" (that aren't initiated by myself) remain the absolute weakest part of my game - I go full AFC everytime a girl leaves me.
- Luckily, I did not go full-blown AFC in front of this girl; I only did so in my head haha..