Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My worry is looking gay if i do get something like that lol.Try getting some diamond earrings! They can really help. I was considered a nerd too but when I got my ears pierced it helped destroy that image. They’re not expensive and it doesn’t hurt.
I can't grow a beard, no matter how long I go without shaving, it grows in patchy.Grow out a beard if you can. Bytches love beards.
I only get this haircut because it looked good when i got it and i have no other ideas in mindPersonally I’d cut the flat top, but that’s just my personal preference. I feel like people assume you’re a nerd if you have that cut. I’m a waver myself, but if you like your hair long maybe get some curls instead?
Lol true. To me a waver is anyone going through the process thoBro you're an attempted waver dont get it twisted.
I co-sign the beard though, get some facial hair asap. Or at least draw it on with marker pen.
Not roasting the haircut just my personal preference. Fade looks good.My worry is looking gay if i do get something like that lol.
I can't grow a beard, no matter how long I go without shaving, it grows in patchy.
I only get this haircut because it looked good when i got it and i have no other ideas in mind
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why not try Photofeeler?God damn, hope that's not a common opinion
Welp after epicurous' post ignorance is blissWhy not try Photofeeler?
Get rich and get mad.Welp after epicurous' post ignorance is bliss
I mean, i don't particularly want to look mean or angry all the time, but even if i put that aside because girls like it, it's not particularly congruent with my personality to walk around looking like batman so i dunno really...As another member stated, you look too nice.
Sharpen up your body language like a bad boy, a guy who's not going to be messed around with. Goggle and YouTube it.
That blazer looks a bit big on you.
Smile less. Pump your chest out etc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bro you are young, but with all due respect, it's why I always tried to preach a requirement of posting pics on this forum. It allows other members to see who exactly we are "taking advice from".I mean, i don't particularly want to look mean or angry all the time, but even if i put that aside because girls like it, it's not particularly congruent with my personality to walk around looking like batman so i dunno really...
Where are you guys seeing a "6" at in those pics? The dude is a solid 3 or 4. If he takes the steps I listed above, THEN he moves to a 6. From there, he can continue to build upon that successful foundation to get to a PEAK of a 7 to 7.5, but being at a 6 to 7 would be sufficient enough for him to pull consistent 6.5 to 7.5 women if he plays the numbers game.At the moment, you're about a general 6/10. Take the advice and you'll be an 8 by Christmas.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.