“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Is tryna smash on the first date moving too fast?

nicksaiz65

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So if I’m pretty sure that a girl is feeling me, is it moving too fast to try and smash on the first date? Like hanging out to show her the studio, watch a movie, and smash from there? Just kinda impatient so I was just wondering lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Nothing wrong with that but you could screw yourself over depending on how you react if she shuts you down.
 

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Depends on what you mean by trying to smash.

If you go full on hail mary with it, then yes you may screw your chances if it doesn't work,

But if you just try to escalate normally to the point where you get laid, whether you get there or not it shouldn't have any effect

On the other hand however, not trying to smash is actively bad unless you're screening for women who don't like you or trying to make friends lol

So, whipping your **** out in the car (unless you're both drunk) = bad

Inviting her upstairs to check out how cute your dog is/asking if she minds letting you use her bathroom after you make sure to walk her home to make sure she gets there safe = okay

As long as you didn't do anything too crazy if she gets offended that you dared to try to get laid that's not a very good sign (wtf did she think she was going on a date for? To make friends? Free food?),

but if she simply doesn't let you bend her over after one date, thats perfectly and totally normal and to be fully expected (first date lays are pretty much impossible unless she's drunk or you guys know each other well already)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Depends on what you mean by trying to smash.

If you go full on hail mary with it, then yes you may screw your chances if it doesn't work,

But if you just try to escalate normally to the point where you get laid, whether you get there or not it shouldn't have any effect

On the other hand however, not trying to smash is actively bad unless you're screening for women who don't like you or trying to make friends lol

So, whipping your **** out in the car (unless you're both drunk) = bad

Inviting her upstairs to check out how cute your dog is/asking if she minds letting you use her bathroom after you make sure to walk her home to make sure she gets there safe = okay

As long as you didn't do anything too crazy if she gets offended that you dared to try to get laid that's not a very good sign (wtf did she think she was going on a date for? To make friends? Free food?),

but if she simply doesn't let you bend her over after one date, thats perfectly and totally normal and to be fully expected (first date lays are pretty much impossible unless she's drunk or you guys know each other well already)
Yeah that’s perfect! I was just wondering about escalating normally on the first date. This girl picked me up instead of the other way around so I thought it might be worth a shot
 

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Depends on the chick.

Is she a hoe? Then smash ASAP.

Tonight I scored a date with an HB 9. She’s a very quality girl, masters degree and I know her through my work. I’m not gonna try to smash her on the first or second date. Rather I am gonna build rapport. I don’t want to bang right away and have her have buyers remorse. I want her to develop feelings for me. This is a girl I’m both mentally and physically attracted to which doesn’t happen often. If I look desperate for sechs it will turn her off.
 

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So if I’m pretty sure that a girl is feeling me, is it moving too fast to try and smash on the first date? Like hanging out to show her the studio, watch a movie, and smash from there? Just kinda impatient so I was just wondering lol.
Not moving too fast but it DQs her from anything serious long term.
 

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So if I’m pretty sure that a girl is feeling me, is it moving too fast to try and smash on the first date? Like hanging out to show her the studio, watch a movie, and smash from there?
The 'watch a movie' part sounds boring. Everything else is good. I expect sex on the first date, but at the same time, I am not pushy at all. Those are two different things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tonight I scored a date with an HB 9. She’s a very quality girl, masters degree and I know her through my work. I’m not gonna try to smash her on the first or second date. Rather I am gonna build rapport. I don’t want to bang right away and have her have buyers remorse. I want her to develop feelings for me. This is a girl I’m both mentally and physically attracted to which doesn’t happen often. If I look desperate for sechs it will turn her off.
the valedictorian of my class in my high school who is currently going through college on a full academic scholarship also constantly likes to post half naked pics in her underwear on snapchat
 

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could anything be faster?

 
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