"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WHY IS MY CRUSH SHY AROUND ME AT SCHOOL BUT NOT SHY AT PARTIES/ONLINE?

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billtx49 said:
I think she likes you and has been baiting you to get your attention and has been waiting for you to make that move…
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Went to school with this in mind. I decided to not give her attention at all and see how she would react. She did the look down as I went past her etc and I just looked the other way.

By lunch, she stepped out in front of me, blocking me and getting me to look her in the face before saying sorry. She saw me coming. In a few classes, she kept looking back right at me. I sit at the back and she had no reason to look back. (My school has really high windows to look out).
She also kept copying my body language in class, how I sat etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IrishLad said:
Went to school with this in mind. I decided to not give her attention at all and see how she would react. She did the look down as I went past her etc and I just looked the other way.

By lunch, she stepped out in front of me, blocking me and getting me to look her in the face before saying sorry. She saw me coming. In a few classes, she kept looking back right at me. I sit at the back and she had no reason to look back. (My school has really high windows to look out).
She also kept copying my body language in class, how I sat etc.
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She’s getting more agressive with her girl game and trying to physically put herself into your orbit. She’s giving you a green light to approach her.
Make a move on her. Do it
Get her out on a date.
She won’t wait forever…
 
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billtx49 said:
She’s getting more agressive with her girl game and trying to physically put herself into your orbit. She’s giving you a green light to approach her.
Make a move on her. Do it
Get her out on a date.
She won’t wait forever…
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Just been invited to a friend's tomorrow, she's going. I'm gonna pull her.
 
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billtx49 said:
She’s getting more agressive with her girl game and trying to physically put herself into your orbit. She’s giving you a green light to approach her.
Make a move on her. Do it
Get her out on a date.
She won’t wait forever…
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Got back 40 mins ago. Don't know where to start, I'm a bit confused right now (and drunk but I had a ton of kebabs and a shower to sober up).

I began talking to her after a few drinks. We were in a small group but eventually it was just us as the others moved on to talk to other people. We talked about her ex, who still loves her and her new "boyfriend" who she says is a rebound to make her ex jealous and she thought that I had moved on from her. I told her that I still liked her and she just looked at me as if to say "I want you right now".

She then practically jumped on me and we had the most passionate kiss I've ever had, groping and all.

She broke off and said that she really likes me and has done for the last two years but doesn't want to date me now because "she doesn't want to create tension between me and her ex", who still loves her and the fact that her friends want her to date her "rebound" which is now 100% confirmed as a rebound who she doesn't really like and hasn't even kissed yet. But her friends threatened to ditch her if she didn't try go out with him but could decide after Christmas if she wants to date him. I asked when we could date and she said after Christmas in public but have a side thing in the meantime before kissing me again. She told me to ignore everything she posts about her rebound as it is to make the ex jealous.

She also sent me nudes 20 minutes ago so there's that.
 
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IrishLad said:
We talked about her ex, who still loves her and her new "boyfriend" who she says is a rebound to make her ex jealous

but doesn't want to date me now "she doesn't want to create tension between me and her ex.

She told me to ignore everything she posts about her rebound as it is to make the ex jealous.
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Too much Ex in your convo with her…
He’s Not a subject you should have talked about.
She’s still after her Ex, but baits you with a passionate kiss and nude pics. Move on and ignore her until her head clears.

With the Ex, the rebound, and now you, All she’s doing is creating Drama.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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