“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Are there any Women DJs here too?

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Hi I am just curious and willing to ask some questions from a different point of view like women too :)

Please acknowledge by posting on my thread :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A lot of women are natural DJs if not all. Even if not all have sex with multiple guys at the same period of time, most of them will still keep their options.

Plus, for them I believe just having male friends (that she friendzoned) is considered DJing.
 

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A lot of women are natural DJs if not all. Even if not all have sex with multiple guys at the same period of time, most of them will still keep their options.

Plus, for them I believe just having male friends (that she friendzoned) is considered DJing.
Hi, what I mean women participating in this forum?
 

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Yes, we have women on this forum and they are not all brats. Well, most of the time anyway. @sazc @BeExcellent @penkitten . They have been paged.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We get a few every now and then, but most of them end up leaving eventually, this forum must be boring for women.
 

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Woman participates in this forum should be considered as GOLD.

Imagine giving us secrets from the enemy that we battle everyday :D
 

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The women here contribute a different perspective than the men at times. Other times we agree strongly with what the men advise. The forum is a buffet. Many different people here from all over the world, different cultures, countries, religions, value systems, ages and strategies. And yes genders too. Bear in mind that the forum often offers wise advise, but that only you know the individual people you are interacting with. Only you know your situation.

Also, the search function is amazing. Use it because you might find that others have had the same or similar questions over the years and you can often reap the wisdom of sages past and present if you search for the topic about which you have questions.

Cheers.
 

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The women here contribute a different perspective than the men at times. Other times we agree strongly with what the men advise. The forum is a buffet. Many different people here from all over the world, different cultures, countries, religions, value systems, ages and strategies. And yes genders too. Bear in mind that the forum often offers wise advise, but that only you know the individual people you are interacting with. Only you know your situation.

Also, the search function is amazing. Use it because you might find that others have had the same or similar questions over the years and you can often reap the wisdom of sages past and present if you search for the topic about which you have questions.

Cheers.

My favorite women on the boards. She gives the best advice imo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't put her on the pedestal bro.

Seriously, I like BEE is sound as a pound :)
Its my Cluster B. I really need to stop with the pedestal crap lol
 

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I can invite more hot women into this board if you guys like, but I don't want the forum to turn into Loveshack.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The women here contribute a different perspective than the men at times. Other times we agree strongly with what the men advise. The forum is a buffet. Many different people here from all over the world, different cultures, countries, religions, value systems, ages and strategies. And yes genders too. Bear in mind that the forum often offers wise advise, but that only you know the individual people you are interacting with. Only you know your situation.

Also, the search function is amazing. Use it because you might find that others have had the same or similar questions over the years and you can often reap the wisdom of sages past and present if you search for the topic about which you have questions.

Cheers.

Thanks! Will get in touch with you :)
 

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I like to chime in when I see a man blaming himself soley for the situation. That's upsetting.

Every now and then I have an opinion. I'll never claim that my opinion is 100 pct correct. Mostly its just a different vantage point that, hopefully, lends something to the dialogue.

I'll never be a flowery and feminine poster. That's not who I am. God forbid I come off as if I am on a pedestal of any sort, or present myself as perfect/sought after in any way. That's not true and I would be embarrassed.

I don't have it figured out, but I'm working on it and you gents are helping me.
 

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I don't really see the motivation for women, tbh. Other than attempting to monitor/moderate what we are saying, and getting some attention.
not a DJ or plate type.... not my cup of tea. but if people are having fun and it's consensual then good. long live hugh hefner! I read this forum sometimes because I like psychology. interesting 2010s changes with social media and massive variety of choice.

Woman participates in this forum should be considered as GOLD.

Imagine giving us secrets from the enemy that we battle everyday :D
to me, it's only an enemy if based on lies. saying you want an LTR when you don't. saying she's the only one when she's not. DJ doesn't have to be based on lies though. knight lifestyle (adventurous/ variety/ new experiences)..... that's a very common phase of life and can be a longterm preference. people should be able to build the life they want.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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