shesabranchswinger
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How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC? I was wrapping with one the other day she brought it up and said 10 I laughed.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah... Rollo T talked about it in his Rational Male books that they ride the CC (aka party years that her SMV offers her) in their 20s and then around age 28 they hit the epiphany age and "clean up" their act to lock down a man for marriage.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Correct. I've seen women pretend to change as well. After sleeping with dozens and dozens of men and being very freaky, one particular woman I know pretended to be an innocent broad looking for a husband. The sad part is, a guy actually fell for the trap.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
Agreed I have seen it toYou probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
It depends on how she handled being alpha-widowed. The majority of them will go out, party, and fvck everything to deal with the loss of their "soulmate". The minority will go celibate. These are the women who start collecting cats.How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC?
You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.Its a difficult one isn't it.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
Of course, or you can even be a virgin and learn over a period of time with one partner and that goes for both people in the relationship.You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No one wants an old crock who can't keep it up unless he is thing about children either.Thanks but no, not willing to pay full price to fix a broken car after countless other drivers had a test drive for free with the interior still smelling fresh.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
Lol. That's why you can't pair-bond with a woman this age. Her CC has been fast and furious.I've read that it's advisable to multiply the number by 7...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.