"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mrgoodstuff

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Not many dudes are going to be able to do what I do simply from a physicality standpoint based on my strength and amount of work I've put in the gym, so my competition from that perspective is extremely low.

Never underestimate what being in peak physical shape and putting a ton of work in related to posterior chain exercises does for your thrusting power. I'm sending a chick through the bed frame or the wall if she is standing up, hahaha
So your abs are chiseled and cut all over? Yeah they get hot when they see that.
 

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So your abs are chiseled and cut all over? Yeah they get hot when they see that.
Some times of the year I have abs. Fall and winter I could care less about abs. Those have no bearing on the outcome
 

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Thanks Pyros.

Yes maybe I pushed it too far with the plans for her to come back to my place again, but as you said, if she was really interested she would have at least made a counter offer. Reality is, yes I do want to **** her because I am attracted to her, but I also want to get to know her better. However, if she also isnt attracted to me after 3 dates, whats the point in investing my time on her?

Update: she got back to me and said that after monday she will let me know when she is free. Still a bit wishy washy response
As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
 

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As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
Ha ha ha... damned if you do, damned if you don't.

There's no rhyme or reason to these girl's behavior. Some of them are just completely capricious, which makes you wonder why we strategize so much... ha ha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wasnt so much of a strategy from me, these were 2 normal pics of people having fun, its not like i was making out with another girl (although even if I was, she had nothing to do with it). But why would she just delete me after this?
 

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This is the crux of your nonsense.

I currently keep a long-term plate that qualifies as this "quality woman" nonsense. Had to drop another plate about 2 months back that was the same (resource management).

Started shagging them both within 3 dates.

Have you seriously never fvcked a "quality woman" in 3 dates before?
Do you seriously not know how to read?

I specifically said most are within 3-7 dates. Some plates I've ****ed on the 1st date, some on the 5th, some on the 3rd. The point is, I DO NOT CARE. I'm not some desperate beta hunting sluts. Women **** you when they're ready to **** you. For some, no amount of your so called "game" will make them drop their underwear on the first two dates. As long as they stick within my frame and provide external benefits such as cooking or taking me out, I'm willing to exercise that patience.

Spin plates. I'm always hustling 5-8 chicks at any given time.
 

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As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
Might have been the case, but it was just a selfie with 2 other girls laughing. I would say a more confident girl would be even more enticed to pursue me (if there was any high enough interest of course).
 

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Might have been the case, but it was just a selfie with 2 other girls laughing. I would say a more confident girl would be even more enticed to pursue me (if there was any high enough interest of course).
maybe she gets screwed by players a lot and isn't taking the chance

or maybe she mistook it for you already having a girlfriend and she didn't want to be a mistress
 

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maybe she gets screwed by players a lot and isn't taking the chance

or maybe she mistook it for you already having a girlfriend and she didn't want to be a mistress
Yes, true. Anyway, now its too late with this one, time to move on.
 

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some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
gotta give them the benefit of the doubt. Show you're a social guy, but too much proof of you chasing girls and showing you like to party may be a huge turn off to her. My sister is a "high value" gal but still AWALT. Ive talked to her about stuff like that before and she says it comes off as super "player-ish". In the end it could have been an array of different things, keep focusing on yourself.
 
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