“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Help me handle this attention *****. The best advice gets a cookie.

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New in the class. Hottest girl in the school in my class. Has a group of AFCs treating her like queen everyday (a lot of kino).

We talked first day and second day she basically smiled at me she hugged me first(didnt even know my name at this point) and flirted like crazy. I played my Don Juan game and she fell for it basically seeking my approval (still ignoring me in school). So now is she interested and testing me or just want me to become her worshipper? We basically went two weeks playing mind games.(she smiles at me first every single day) She is a girl that I would really get to know and have something with you know just to have her around but for myself too. (i know city is full of bitches and i should not give a **** about her i have no time to write my whole situation basically i want her for a relationship) btw she is russian i know there are a lot of stereotypes and **** about that...

btw we are neighbours,we wait for the bus together everyday,im 2 years older than her if thats important
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Be a man unlike those other AFCs and invite her to spend time with you on your way out of class one day
 

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Be a man unlike those other AFCs and invite her to spend time with you on your way out of class one day
That's what i plan on doing. But from what you read what do you think do they do that to test or to make you her *****? and about calling her we wait for the bus together everyday and are neighbours sooo...
 

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That's what i plan on doing. But from what you read what do you think do they do that to test or to make you her *****? and about calling her we wait for the bus together everyday and are neighbours sooo...
I didn't read past the part of you not asking her out. Everything else is irrelevant to the outcome. Stop looking for clues and take action. That's what men do
 

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I didn't read past the part of you not asking her out. Everything else is irrelevant to the outcome. Stop looking for clues and take action. That's what men do
damn straight strong and no bull****. thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New in the class. Hottest girl in the school in my class. Has a group of AFCs treating her like queen everyday (a lot of kino).

We talked first day and second day she basically smiled at me she hugged me first(didnt even know my name at this point) and flirted like crazy. I played my Don Juan game and she fell for it basically seeking my approval (still ignoring me in school). So now is she interested and testing me or just want me to become her worshipper? We basically went two weeks playing mind games.(she smiles at me first every single day) She is a girl that I would really get to know and have something with you know just to have her around but for myself too. (i know city is full of *****es and i should not give a **** about her i have no time to write my whole situation basically i want her for a relationship) btw she is russian i know there are a lot of stereotypes and **** about that...

btw we are neighbours,we wait for the bus together everyday,im 2 years older than her if thats important

It's already over with.

Move on to the next girl.
 

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Just ask her out.

Literally 95% of problems on this forum can be answered by taking action.

It doesn't matter if she wants orbiters. It doesn't matter if she's doing anything for your attention.

All that matters is that you take action and see how she responds.
 

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She's hot right? So, base her actions on her personality. Explained: "ask her out" when you two are connecting on a personal level. Or, don't "ask her out"....just go out with her. Start talking to her after class one day when she comes up to you, then go get something to eat and just bring her along. Isolate.

What can you start doing now? Reward her good behavior. When she comes up to talk to you, talk to her. When she tries to play games and ignores you, ignore her. When she's doing neither, do your own thing. It's okay to show interest in a woman, but it's her job to keep your interest.

Men can learn a lot about women by watching the behavior of cats. What happens when you try to get a cat to pay attention to you and-or crawl up on you lap? It does the opposite. What happens when you totally ignore and show it your back and walk away? It comes up to you. When it crawls on your lap, pet it. When it leaves your lap, let it go. Next thing you know, whenever you walk into whatever house it is that owns that cat (hopefully you don't own cats, just sayin) the cat will chase you down. And, all those cat lovers around you will be jealous and think: "what the hell?"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Key with AW's is speed, hit them with game immediately, then as soon as the hamster starts spinning invite them out, take them out drinking so their true slutty self comes out, then bang them then move the hell on and don't get stuck with them because you can't out game them permenantly
 

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New in the class. Hottest girl in the school in my class. Has a group of AFCs treating her like queen everyday (a lot of kino).

We talked first day and second day she basically smiled at me she hugged me first(didnt even know my name at this point) and flirted like crazy. I played my Don Juan game and she fell for it basically seeking my approval (still ignoring me in school). So now is she interested and testing me or just want me to become her worshipper? We basically went two weeks playing mind games.(she smiles at me first every single day) She is a girl that I would really get to know and have something with you know just to have her around but for myself too. (i know city is full of *****es and i should not give a **** about her i have no time to write my whole situation basically i want her for a relationship) btw she is russian i know there are a lot of stereotypes and **** about that...

btw we are neighbours,we wait for the bus together everyday,im 2 years older than her if thats important
Don't treat her any different than any other plate. She hasn’t earned that yet. Ask her out. Don't put her on a pedestal. She is just another plate. Show her you have options. Be indifferent. Be a challenge.

Lose rhe oneitus you are already developing for her.

She is just an ordinary girl. If you treat her like she is the prize then you already lost. If you show her YOU are the prize then she will chase you.

Be a man.
 

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btw she is russian i know there are a lot of stereotypes and **** about that...

Yeah, and for good reason. Look at who they have as a leader. Treat her like you are Putin, and she is Crimea: I am Rashan manly man. I see, I want, I take.
 

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Why aren't new users here (a lot of whom I'm noticing are still teens) not using the high school forum?

Anyway, is she Russian as in has Russian genes but grew up here in the U.S.? Or actually Russian as in off the boat from Russia recently? If the latter, Russian women have been raised to respect strong men. So stop being a weak pu$$y like these other orbiters.
 

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Don't treat her any different than any other plate. She hasn’t earned that yet. Ask her out. Don't put her on a pedestal. She is just another plate. Show her you have options. Be indifferent. Be a challenge.

Lose rhe oneitus you are already developing for her.

She is just an ordinary girl. If you treat her like she is the prize then you already lost. If you show her YOU are the prize then she will chase you.

Be a man.
How is she a "plate"????

OP hasn't even been on a date with her yet, let alone fvcked her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How is she a "plate"????

OP hasn't even been on a date with her yet, let alone fvcked her
She may not a plate yet, what i am saying is don't treat her any different than a plate.
 
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