"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Merry Christmas card to ex ?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CuddleJunkie
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Then it's a no imo. What are you trying to acomplish by sending her the ecard?
CuddleJunkie
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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
....a thousand times NO.
Block her on all social media, leave her in the past and get on with your life.
To show her you have no hard feelings anymore? Firstly where is this need to prove you have no hard feelings coming from? She dropped you for another dude. Your ego was hurt and basically you could say you lost her approval (of you as a person). There's some deep need in you that wants her to approve of the fact that "you've no hard feelings". Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. You only need to know that you have no hard feelings anymore and the best way to do that is ignore her existence and validate your own life.
Secondly, upone receiving your card I don't think she will say "ah that's fantastic, he has no hard feelings, he's such a great guy". Probably she will view the card with derision and pity. She has long moved on and you are in the past to her.
The fact that you have this need to prove to her that there is no hard feelings shows that you haven't fully moved on/let go.
Furthermore, she dumped you for another dude....she does not fvcking deserve the time of day from you. Anyone who disrespects you like that needs to be cut out of your life like the cancer that they are. She is a malignant cvnt. A malignant cvnt.
Block the biatch and move on. You're only validation is in living your own life.
It's time for you to get tough....with yourself.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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marmel75
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Fvck no. What the hell is wrong with you?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Glumix
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No hard feelings? So why do you ask questions? Why are you hesitant? What are you afraid of?
She dumped you for another man and you are going to write her a christmas card?! After 1.5 years of NC? Don't you think it's her job to write you a christmas card with some apologies?!