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Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Third date Meal at my house

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So I have a third date with a lady, and I'm cooking for her at my house. Do you guys have any recipes for a novice at cooking? Tips?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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usernamedox11

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i don't know man, i usually just order sushi if a girl is coming to my place. check this out:
 

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why in gods name would you arrange a date that involves you cooking for her

when you dont know how to cook

do you realise how much pressure your putting yourself under for absolutley no reason

also she should be cooking for you by this point not the other way around

frame is all wrong bro, sorry
 

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i don't know man, i usually just order sushi if a girl is coming to my place. check this out:
That's weak as fvck bro...every man should know how to cook...I can't tell you how many lays I've gotten from inviting women over and cooking them a home made meal from scratch and having them help me out in the kitchen...it's like foreplay before the meal
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cook something you like and you know how to cook that isn't going to stink up the apartment or is going to have you spending too much time in the cooking and cleaning up. Don't try to worry about what you think she might like.

My goto meal is shish kabobs, marinated overnight, baked potatoes and salad. Fix the salad before she arrives, when she gets there pop the potatoes in the oven. Put the kabobs on the grill, 10 minutes, then flip for another 10.. potatoes cook in 20 minutes. Everything is done at once, and sh!t cooks itself so you can spend your time seducing her.
 

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why in gods name would you arrange a date that involves you cooking for her

when you dont know how to cook

do you realise how much pressure your putting yourself under for absolutley no reason

also she should be cooking for you by this point not the other way around

frame is all wrong bro, sorry
what is she, a slave? sure we are DJs but honestly, its not like she is the one that has to make all the affort, you gotta makke SOME amount of effort. cooking is a great way to show a girl that you're putting some effort, without spending too much money, and its practical because its almost a gurantee you will get her in bed later.

i cook, and i show her what to do, basically she will follow my instructions, its actually puts you as more dominant, and best thing - its super fun.

so learn how to cook OP.
 

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What I've done before that's worked quite well is to make it a date where you're BOTH in the kitchen cooking something new. You simply say, "So, for our next date, I was thinking we could cook a new recipe together." I've suggested this a few times, and was surprised at how many woman actually have dreams of doing this with their guy. You pick out something you've both never cooked before that's still somewhat easy - i.e. chicken with some new kind of sauce or side to it - and then you make the whole thing a date: Going to the store together, picking out items (and wine, of course) and a good movie at RedBox (or on the Netflix if you got it), then going to your place or hers and putting everything together. Works like a charm - she gets to see you in the kitchen, you're including her in the process, and... well, you're drinking wine. You'll both be full, drunk, chilled out by the movie and ready to do other things later...
 

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My opinion is, Don't bend over backwards cooking for her. Keep it simple. Order in some Chinese or a pizza or simply microwave a bag of organic ready-rice; peel open a can of organic chicken; serve up a raw green veggie. All are good enough.

Oh and tell her to bring drinks. Make her do some of the fvucking work.
You guys vastly underestimate how much work knowing how to cook saves you in getting laid...if you are starting at a 2 out of 10 prior to cooking you end at a 8 out of 10 after cooking...maybe even a 9 or 10 depending on how good it is.

You skip a whole bunch of resistance and BS. There will be virtually none.
 

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Peel open a can of chicken? lol damn son.
 

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Why did this post remind me of this??


My take is if shes coming to your house, the job is done.

Get her to bring something to drink and make something basic.

Spaghetti Bollonese or something like that, if you cant get take away and pass it off as your own cooking haha

Then proceed to Netflix and chill....
 
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