"We have to talk. I'm moving out."

[yyc12]

BPD girl has a new man now. He's a big redneck who used to hold illegal mma fights in his barn. The first night they hooked up, he didn't realize she was 3 months preggo. I think she must have told him tonight, and he of course pledged his undying love. There are pics of them on facebook together. Her street fighter fiancee who beat her up should get out of jail any time now. As soon as he looks at facebook, he'll know what's up. His family has been paying her rent, because she's knocked up with his kid. This is all going to be pretty funny when it blows up. Yesterday, she was asking me to move away with her.

Where exactly do you meet these "quality" people??

 

[zekko]

BPD girl has a new man now. He's a big redneck who used to hold illegal mma fights in his barn. The first night they hooked up, he didn't realize she was 3 months preggo. I think she must have told him tonight, and he of course pledged his undying love. There are pics of them on facebook together. Her street fighter fiancee who beat her up should get out of jail any time now. As soon as he looks at facebook, he'll know what's up. His family has been paying her rent, because she's knocked up with his kid. This is all going to be pretty funny when it blows up. Yesterday, she was asking me to move away with her.

So you're a cage fighter yourself, this new guy runs illegal mma fights in his barn, and the BPD's ex is a street fighter. Maybe you should all get together in the ring and fight it out in The Brawl To End It All.

As a side note, if your girlfriend is going to be moving away, I take it that kills all notion of having a child with her? I think you dodged a bullet there, young man.

 

[Boilermaker]

So let me get this straight: you're upset because I reflected things that you said? You were the one who told us she was fat. You were the one who told us she was bad with money. You were the one who told us you lost sexual interest in her. You told us she left you without many possessions. Do you deny saying these things?

If you are embarrassed about the things you revealed, then perhaps you shouldn't have revealed them in the first place. Don't be getting mad because people are pointing out facts that you provided. Seriously, you sound like a bratty little teenage girl.

Well to be objective, your style of stating facts that we all knew was bordering on hate speech.

Maybe you are not appreciating how much courage is needed to tell stuff OP has been revealing, especially in a men's forum.

I think you owe him an apology to settle this.

 

[Die Hard]

Yeah, we should all be happy for BB! You're being mean, Lexy! Boo! Shame on you!

 

[Boilermaker]

Yes, you should be happy for BB; but I doubt a lot of you can ever be happy for someone else with your pseudo-macho bitterness, especially if something is at odds with your silly ego-invested beliefs and life-style.

It's way past midnight to shut the fvck up, but go ahead and talk smack about people whose faces you don't see.

I am sure "die hard" and "lexy" are AS HONEST in real life AS THEY are in this cyber-hole.

I am sure you tell your own friends who are dating "land whales" that they are wasting their lives and options.

Once upon a time, there were real men in this forum, who would only say stuff to others that they have the balls to say in person.

Karma-Sutra was one such guy.

 

[Die Hard]

Lol

 

[Lexington]

Well to be objective, your style of stating facts that we all knew was bordering on hate speech.

Bordering on hate speech? Was I the one calling him a pvssy and a beta faggot?

I didn't insult him and I didn't even use derogatory terms to describe the woman in question until he resorted to insults. In fact, he used much harsher language than I did in describing this woman.

Facts are facts. They're not always pleasant. There were plenty of guys hurling insults towards him. I can only guess that the reason he reacted with such vitriol is because he sees the truth in what I said.

Maybe you are not appreciating how much courage is needed to tell stuff OP has been revealing, especially in a men's forum.

We don't come here to be coddled. We come here to receive cold hard truths.

I think you owe him an apology to settle this.

Prior to his directing profanity at me, everything I said was civil and factual. If anyone is owed an apology, that would be me.

I am sure "die hard" and "lexy" are AS HONEST in real life AS THEY are in this cyber-hole.

I can't speak for Die Hard, but you're right about me

I am sure you tell your own friends who are dating "land whales" that they are wasting their lives and options.

So you're telling me if your friend was settling for a land whale and you thought he had better options you wouldn't tell him? You wouldn't be much of a friend, would you?

 

[Boilermaker]

We don't come here to be cuddled but we don't come here for 'beta bashing' either.

Or at least we shouldn't.

So your defense is, he hit me first? Feelings of anger usually stem from feelings of hurt ... Could it be that you made progressively escalating insults towards this girl along the way that led to BB's anger towards you? ... and 16 pages of smack begs the question: What the fvck is it to you even if he is hypothetically settling for a sub-optimal choice? I doubt you consider BB as a friend you care about so much about. What is your motivation in this nasty exchange you're having with him for 16-pages? His is clear, he is trying to get a story across to a couple hundred other members who are not here to spout their anger through fistfights.

As for your last question, yes, my life experienced has taught me, telling your friends the truth outright in the most bare form quickly gets you labeled as a "hater, loser, jealous bastard, cynic, and whatnot (I heard that all in my younger days). I don't know your social life, or dynamics, but either you are a loner with a few friends who try to stay away from your constant acrimony, or you are lying. It just doesn't work like how it played out here, in real life.

Cheers.

 

[Lexington]

We don't come here to be cuddled but we don't come here for 'beta bashing' either.

And where did I call him a beta or even diss his manliness (until he resorted puerile insults)?

So your defense is, he hit me first?

Yes.

Feelings of anger usually stem from feelings of hurt ... Could it be that you made progressively escalating insults towards this girl along the way that led to BB's anger towards you?

His own insults toward this girl were far worse than anything I said. Everything I said was based on facts that he provided.

What the fvck is it to you even if he is hypothetically settling for a sub-optimal choice?

What the fvck does anyone care? It's an online forum. If people post, people are going to make comments. That's how these things tend to work.

I doubt you consider BB as a friend you care about so much about.

Irrelevant. I've seen you dole out "advice" to people you don't necessarily care about.

What is your motivation in this nasty exchange you're having with him for 16-pages?

I see that this guy was dumped by a "fat *****." This said fat ***** left him with very few possessions. By his own admission he had little sexual interest in her. Now he is rationalizing getting back with her. He states this is what he truly wants, but it doesn't appear to be that way. This appears to be due to a lack of options and is indicative of much deeper problems.

One could ask what is your motivation, Boilermaker? Why do you feel the need to speak on his behalf? He's a grown man and he can speak for himself.

His is clear, he is trying to get a story across to a couple hundred other members who are not here to spout their anger through fistfights.

He was the one who started this "fistfight." If he didn't want people to make comments then perhaps he shouldn't have posted here in the first place.

As for your last question, yes, my life experienced has taught me, telling your friends the truth outright in the most bare form quickly gets you labeled as a "hater, loser, jealous bastard, cynic, and whatnot (I heard that all in my younger days).

Apparently you don't have close friends or your friends are immature little teenage girls like BB.

For the record, I told more than one friend that their girls were sucking the life out of them. They initially disagreed but later came around to the truth.

I don't know your social life, or dynamics, but either you are a loner with a few friends who try to stay away from your constant acrimony, or you are lying.

False dichotomy.

 

[Boilermaker]

I see that this guy was dumped by a "fat *****." This said fat ***** left him with very few possessions. By his own admission he had little sexual interest in her. Now he is rationalizing getting back with her. He states this is what he truly wants, but it doesn't appear to be that way. This appears to be due to a lack of options and is indicative of much deeper problems.

One could ask what is your motivation, Boilermaker? Why do you feel the need to speak on his behalf? He's a grown man and he can speak for himself.

So you're admitting that this forum is a punching bag for you, as I am not seeing any clear motivation apart from further insults?

My motivation is to use SoSuave for what's intended for. To discuss with mature men and help others. And get ideas and feedback as opposed to the

constant vitriol that I am feeling you are giving away these days. I am sure you're not like that in real life, I really am.

I think he's been answering you for about 10-pages. He has spoken for himself for a while now, no?

He was the one who started this "fistfight." If he didn't want people to

You keep squealing, "Mommy, he hit me first" over and over again. Out in the real world, maybe you'll have the guts to get into a real fight and maybe you'l l get to use that defense again.

 

[Boilermaker]

Lex, don't feed the troll.

Awww, did I break your little heart again recently smurfette?

Thanks for your love,

Kissing enough Moderator asses to be able to post in the men's club?

Keep it up, :crackup:

 

[Boilermaker]

dp.

 

[Lexington]

So you're admitting that this forum is a punching bag for you

This is a non sequitur. Nothing I typed would suggest this at all.

as I am not seeing any clear motivation apart from further insults?

The motivation is that this is an online discussion board and there are some interesting points to discuss. Everything I said was factual and based on statements that he provided.

My motivation is to use SoSuave for what's intended for. To discuss with mature men and help others.

Really, is that what you're here for now?

And get ideas and feedback

Which I gave him. My feedback is that he should not go back to this fat, unattractive girl who made an obvious power play.

as opposed to the

constant vitriol that I am feeling you are giving away these days.

There was no vitriol in my statements. They were statements of fact.

I am sure you're not like that in real life, I really am.

What?

I think he's been answering you for about 10-pages. He has spoken for himself for a while now, no?

He makes a statement, people make rebuttals. That's how a discussion is supposed to work. Throwing a hissy fit and hurling childish insults are generally not recommended but not disallowed.

You keep squealing, "Mommy, he hit me first" over and over again.

Who are you, Gandhi or something? Generally, in the real world when one insults or strikes another, people respond in kind.

Out in the real world, maybe you'll have the guts to get into a real fight

Done it multiple times.

and maybe you'l l get to use that defense again.

I did, as I stood over the bruised and bloodied bodies of my vanquished foes

dp.

Is BB giving you the shocker?

 

[Boilermaker]

Using big words like non-sequitur and dichotomy really make you look smart,
as if you know what you are talking about. I don't have so much free time to line-by-line thrash your cute response. I am done here, sexy, you are really boring me.

You are just another coward pretentious wannabe bad-boy, at least, this is your latest fad.

Sadly you aren't cutting it. Maybe try another act next month?,



Fine ! Do what you want , pointless discussion.

 

[Boilermaker]

No. As one of the users who sways between quasi intellectualism and clownish trolling, I (describing yourself?)never have nor ever will take you seriously.

Lex, just thought I'd save you the trouble of wasting time debating this genius, although your drubbing of said troll is quite entertaining.

Genius? Intellectual? So many compliments. You've got some things right about me, but no I am no genius, thanks.

Try being a puppy for Lexyy now maybe he'll give you the time of the day.



P.S With your English you are insulting yourself; without even realizing it. Read what you've written. Or is Inglesi a second language for you?


Smile, relax , no hard feelings, it's all a game.

 

[Lexington]

Using big words like non-sequitur and dichotomy really make you look smart,
as if you know what you are talking about.

Yup, heaven forbid I read books.

I don't have so much free time to line-by-line thrash your cute response. I am done here, sexy, you are really boring me.

Says the guy who posts here twice as much as I do.

You are just another coward pretentious wannabe bad-boy, at least, this is your latest fad.

And you are Bible's butt buddy. I'm sure you're the catcher at the end of the daisy chain with BB and his fat ***** right behind you.

Sadly you aren't cutting it.

I'm devastated that I don't meet your standards.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Guys, please don't get thread locked. Take it to PM! I really want to see some updates in this situation!

 

[disgustipated]

Stopped reading a bit ago. Anyone got the chronological footnotes? He didn't get her preggers did he?

 

[Bible_Belt]

This thread reminds me of an old Twilight Zone episode where a guy gets the gift of being able to read minds. And then he goes insane, because the thoughts going through peoples' heads are so repulsive.

The gf is not pregnant yet. We've only been trying for two months, and this might be the last. We will have that talk when she gets her period in a week or two.

I go my gf's house every other day and fvck her. Just about every other moment has been spent around BPD girl. I have been going to her house and sleeping with her every night. We try not to have sex, but we did get drunk and fool around once. It was like preggo porn. We agreed to not have sex again, or at least try not to, for the sake of both of our relationships. Her guy has a bail hearing on Monday. He might be out this week. I am going to try to let their relationship run its course. I don't think it will last long.

And I really, really hope it is nothing, but I am paranoid that BPD girl could have given me an std in that one minute of drunken sex. The skin on my nuts feels irritated and looks a tiny bit red. I hope to god it's not herpes. There are no blisters or sores, but it just doesn't feel right.

 

[Zarky]

Nice work, BB, nice work. Generally STDs are pretty obvious. If you have to ask if it's an STD, it almost always isn't. Having said that it's always best to check with your doctor.