"We have to talk. I'm moving out."

[Boilermaker]

I think everyone here is trying to help because we're not emotionally attached to the parties involved.

I highly doubt everyone is here to help. That's a very inane way to think about sosuave. If anything, the majority doesn't really care at all about Bible's best interests. Human pyschology is way more complicated than that. It's no coincidence that people who are the hardest on Bible are invested in opinions that are completely orthogonal to his current situation.

Not sure if my personal opinion matters, but I agree fully with Danger's last comment. On the other hand, it is insulting Bible's intelligence to suggest that "everyone" is here to help while some people are outright spiteful after a few posts of disagreement. What's missing here in our brotherhood is, the final stage of shutting up. Bible has gracefully listened to us (for about 12 pages of discussion) and yet, some still wanted to impose their beliefs relentlessly.

Truly mature men should realize that after a civil discussion with a healthy dose of brutal honesty, it is HIS life and we are in no way warranted to insult him for choices he makes, considering that I'd bet a thousand bucks that 99% of us who are throwing stones here, COULD HAVE BEEN in his shoes given the right circumstances and turn of events.

 

[Stagger Lee]

The important thing is Bible_Belt is happy with the situation and that's what really matters. His happiness is real. That's more than many can say about their situation. What's the worse thing that can happen if he continues on? We don't really know what will happen. I think it is valid to say you think it probably won't turn out well or that BB should find another girl. But to say he's an "AFC" and glutton for punishment is a little extreme.

 

[Lexington]

If it's silence that people want, all that needs to be done is to quit posting. The reason people keep "piling on" the OP is because he keeps on posting. If he's going to make posts, he's going to get responses. That's how these forums tend to work.

Obviously, he's free to make his own choices. No one is telling him otherwise. Whether or not people genuinely care about his well being is a red herring. The issue here is that there are many glaring red flags in this scenario.

The OP continues to post arguments defending his choices and others are posting rebuttals. That's all that's happening here. The OP should have known that people are going to give brutally honest answers here. I certainly wouldn't want it any other way.

 

[Zarky]

The important thing is Bible_Belt is happy with the situation and that's what really matters.

We'll see how happy he is a year or two from now when he signs his first child support check.

His happiness is real.

So will his sadness be.

What's the worse thing that can happen if he continues on?

Marrying and/or getting some heifer pregnant. Getting dumped again and losing his sanity even worse than this time. Etc.

 

[Stagger Lee]

We'll see how happy he is a year or two from now when he signs his first child support check.


So will his sadness be.


Marrying and/or getting some heifer pregnant. Getting dumped again and losing his sanity even worse than this time. Etc.

So what's the solution? Never have sex without a condom and pull out, spend all your time picking up new women, don't have sex with women or date at all so nothing happens? There's no perfect solution.

 

[Zarky]

So what's the solution? Never have sex without a condom and pull out, spend all your time picking up new women, don't have sex with women or date at all so nothing happens? There's no perfect solution.

There's no perfect solution, but there are solutions that vary in logic and intelligence. Currently, the OP's solution is at the low-end of that scale.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She failed a math class she needs for the local school, so now it is certain that she will be going away for school. It looks like the school of choice will be 1,000 miles away. She will be gone for a full calendar year with hardly any breaks. The other option is being about 300 miles away for two years, but the first school is $40,000 cheaper.

It's hard to be that serious with the long-distance scenario looming. I'm definitely not going to propose. I might even put her back on birth control next month; this month is 10 months before she leaves. Any longer and she would not have the kid before school started.

Plus, I'm getting a little sick of being a secret from her family. For the next three or four days, I am not allowed at her house because her half-sister is staying with her. She is supposedly close to her family, but doesn't seem to mind lying to them about me.

Plus, it is getting harder and harder to not fvck BPD girl. If anyone here has a BPD ex, you understand how much fun they are. I am actually rooting for her scum bag boyfriend to get out of jail for beating her up, because that will keep me away from her. I was told that he was some sort of street-fighting champion; I really doubt that he and I will get along. Their relationship can't last that long. I want to just stay away and let it run its course. But that can't happen until they at least let him out on bail.

So that is the good, bad, and the ugly. Like I said, it's all true, and I don't have a need to sugar-coat anything.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I would say everything I typed here to your face.

And then you'd bleed. I guess you must not hang around any men, or else you would understand that. Keep running your mouth and someone will eventually teach you.

 

[Lexington]

And then you'd bleed. I guess you must not hang around any men, or else you would understand that. Keep running your mouth and someone will eventually teach you.

This thread is all I need to know that the only thing bleeding would be your sand-filled vagina.

Running my mouth? I never said anything that you didn't. You just threw a hissy fit when I called it like it is.

But I'm sure you've made a great choice. A broke, 37 year old lardball who left you without any possessions and who doesn't want to tell her family about you? What could possibly go wrong? Oh well, if that doesn't work out, you can always go back go the knocked up BPD chick who's man beats her.

 

[MikeOck]

A woman who "loves you" and "can't imagine herself with anyone else" doesn't hide you from her family. It sounds like you are terribly afraid of being alone, so you accept unacceptable women into your life. This is no way to live. Learn to be happy with yourself, by yourself; get your own life in order and stop relying on women to make your life complete.

If you were not emotionally involved in this situation and were reading another man posting what you have been, you would be shaking your head in disbelief like the rest of us, wonder what this guy is thinking.

 

[Bible_Belt]

the only thing bleeding would be your sand-filled vagina.

If you're ever near St. Louis, you have my invitation to get in a cage with me so we can talk about it in person. Don't worry, we keep an ambulance on standby. That's part of what makes it all nice and legal.

Until then, you're just another little sh!t-talking fagg0t b!tch.

 

[Bible_Belt]

And to everyone else, I thank you for your input, with no hard feelings.

The girlfriend everyone hates and I have another ten months of recreational sex ahead of us before she leaves, and I am just going to enjoy it for what it is.

Not that this makes sense to anyone here, but I am attracted to BPD girl for intimacy much more so than sex. She's just about the only woman I enjoy hanging out with. (that's part of what BPD is) I still end up being somewhat physical with her, but we don't have sex, which is somehow fine with me.

So I want to fvck one girl, and then spend all my time with a different one. This is exactly where I was five years ago, except I was fvcking both of them, often both on the same night. It's one big circle.

BPD girl is going back to her man if he ever gets out of jail, with my blessing, and the girlfriend is going away eventually. At that point, I'll probably just fvck wh0res off craigslist. I don't think I have a fear of being alone. But going without sex is pretty scary.

 

[Zarky]

If you're ever near St. Louis, you have my invitation to get in a cage with me so we can talk about it in person.

Charge admission. I'd pay to see a sosuave slap-fest!! :cheer:

 

[goodganji44]

What is so difficult about getting new women that you have to find intimacy with a BPD woman and sex with fat wh0res on Craigslist?

Exactly. What steps are you taking to improve your income? Your life? It sounds like you NEED women way too much right now. Your dependency issues are going to be the end of you.


You went from complaining about an 80 pound overweight chick leaving you. Then she dropped about 40 lbs, to wanting to get her pregnant, to helping her fix issues she should have had fixed a long time ago, to making blank idle threats on the internet to absolute strangers, to volunteering yourself back to BPD land.

You're an emotional trainwreck right now BB and I hope at some point that you're able to fix the internal issues going on right now. As you should know, BPD's sniff out and harp on people who have issues with themselves and it looks like you're willingly setting yourself up to be another victim.

I don't know where you will find your balls to get up, get out and do something, but I hope you find them somewhere.

 

[Married Buried]

She dumped him anyway, she's leaving him to go to college. This is not how decent women who are in love with you act, they delude themselves forever into thinking that the relationship can work.

She might already be knocked up. He said he's been trying to knock her up for the past month. Give it 2 weeks.

 

[Lexington]

If you're ever near St. Louis, you have my invitation to get in a cage with me so we can talk about it in person. Don't worry, we keep an ambulance on standby. That's part of what makes it all nice and legal.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'll have to watch out for your dangerous bottom game given your extensive experience working underneath that land whale. I'm sure she gave you some mean ground 'n pound.

Until then, you're just another little sh!t-talking fagg0t b!tch.

If you would go back and review the thread you would see that I never said anything you didn't. I guess the truth hurts but that's no reason to throw a hissy fit.

 

[Three]

BB - I know where you are, man! BPDs are fucked up, for sure. I was married to one for 3 years. It sounds like you're coming out of your fog of war (that's what it really is with these chicks, right?) and starting to see a little more clearly. It can only help if you distance yourself a little bit from these women and focus on yourself, your hobbies, new women, etc. Again, good luck, man!

Oh, and for Christ's sake, brother, get her on BC asap and start wearing a fucking glove!

 

[Bible_Belt]

BPD girl has a new man now. He's a big redneck who used to hold illegal mma fights in his barn. The first night they hooked up, he didn't realize she was 3 months preggo. I think she must have told him tonight, and he of course pledged his undying love. There are pics of them on facebook together. Her street fighter fiancee who beat her up should get out of jail any time now. As soon as he looks at facebook, he'll know what's up. His family has been paying her rent, because she's knocked up with his kid. This is all going to be pretty funny when it blows up. Yesterday, she was asking me to move away with her.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I never said anything you didn't.

And that's why you're a piece of sh!t. No one on this web site will ever reveal anything about themselves if pieces of sh!t like you are here. Once again, that's the worst part of the Internet - people like you.

 

[Lexington]

And that's why you're a piece of sh!t. No one on this web site will ever reveal anything about themselves if pieces of sh!t like you are here. Once again, that's the worst part of the Internet - people like you.

So let me get this straight: you're upset because I reflected things that you said? You were the one who told us she was fat. You were the one who told us she was bad with money. You were the one who told us you lost sexual interest in her. You told us she left you without many possessions. Do you deny saying these things?

If you are embarrassed about the things you revealed, then perhaps you shouldn't have revealed them in the first place. Don't be getting mad because people are pointing out facts that you provided. Seriously, you sound like a bratty little teenage girl.