Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
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- Age
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- Location
- Josetown a.k.a Chocolate City Area
Week 4 Day 7
Hey guys, didn't finish this week either.
Was two rejections away too.
I had a project to do and luckily it is finished.
When goin to one of my pal's dorm hall...See a hispanic girl I see around often and say watsup to, who is as nice as can be. She has braces, and wavy black hair, cute too. She gives me her number as she wants me to call her sometime.
After that i go to the cafeteria to eat with more girls(Had some brandi and felt strange), but a guy i know shows up and I decide to eat with him since i think he's cool. I wanted to approach girls while i got more food...but I didn't think that'd be fair to him(Have him wait on me)...so I decided to just keep chattin with him. I do say "hi" to a 2 set who walk by and they say hi back, they're hot before i sit down and eat. If he wasn't there(I should've had him join me to eat with them) i would so be eating with them...its not even a question of "Can I sit down and eat" but "Should I not sit down and eat"?lol.
After we eat, I see a 3-set sitting down...i am thinking about approaching them, but I decide not to(I'm working on doing 'on the spot approaches')
As I'm walking outside, see a redhead hb7 with a lip piercing who i met weeks previous. We fluff for about 30 seconds and I get her number.
Then I see a cute brunette sitting down. Say hi to her, she smiles and says hi back. I ask if she's single and she says yes. It shocked me, as i was so used to getting "no's". She asks why. I tell her that "She was cute and I wanted to meet her" I find out about her and what not, especially what she does for fun. I then see a guy waiting for her(a friend)...and I try to get her number but she says that she's on facebook. Bam, got a rejection eventho it didn't seem like one at all. But I will hit her up on facebook coming up.
After that I went to the lab.
All in all, like week 3...I wasn't able to complete the week. But I will still call up the girls(Didn't have time today as I was really worried about the project being done) and complete another week 4. This time, i'm gonna do "On the spot approaches"...but most of the time, the girl is with someone else...so I'm going to have to just use that to my advantage to get them more comfortable.
So here's my summary for week 4
What I learned:
1) Start out small when approaching, but then go higher
2)If ur too nervous to approach on a certain day, start small by talking to people
3)The only way to feel more comfortable being around hot girls is to interact with them more.
4) Even if girls might not be interested in u romantically, they can still be a friend--Plan that for ones I think are mondo cool.
5) When in doubt, tell ur self...its fine to doubt...but don't quit...keep going even if u hate it...u'll be so glad u did.
6) You'd be so surprised at how much in common u can have with girls, just got to really find that part out about them.
What I Improved on:
1) Can cold approach more easily.
2) My conversation skills are improving...but i still choose to not talk much, thats just my style...not a problem.
3) Feel more relaxed
4) Approaching is becoming a part of me
5) Realizing that even if i miss a week, that doing it in itself is a great blessing.
6) Can't picture myself not approaching anymore, would feel awkward.
7) Keeping up with my priorities
8) Have a better vibe of asking for a number. What's the point of it, if u can sense they're uninterested? I want to sense some kind of interest.
What I need to improve on:
1) Humor-My sense of humor is getting better, but I feel some of it is too bland. Like most of the comments i make are "Stayin out of trouble?" "Chillin...chillin...and chillin somemore" "Keep it real"
2) Mumbling-I tend to mumble now and then...but no biggie.
3) On the spot approaches-Want to be able to approach anywhere, anytime
4) Hesitation-Still have it, but its reducing.
5) Night Game-Comes with practice
Going to do the assignments for both Week 4 and Week 5...in this 2nd try coming up. I deserve to get success.
Numbers: 16
Rejections: 8/10
Hey guys, didn't finish this week either.
Was two rejections away too.
I had a project to do and luckily it is finished.
When goin to one of my pal's dorm hall...See a hispanic girl I see around often and say watsup to, who is as nice as can be. She has braces, and wavy black hair, cute too. She gives me her number as she wants me to call her sometime.
After that i go to the cafeteria to eat with more girls(Had some brandi and felt strange), but a guy i know shows up and I decide to eat with him since i think he's cool. I wanted to approach girls while i got more food...but I didn't think that'd be fair to him(Have him wait on me)...so I decided to just keep chattin with him. I do say "hi" to a 2 set who walk by and they say hi back, they're hot before i sit down and eat. If he wasn't there(I should've had him join me to eat with them) i would so be eating with them...its not even a question of "Can I sit down and eat" but "Should I not sit down and eat"?lol.
After we eat, I see a 3-set sitting down...i am thinking about approaching them, but I decide not to(I'm working on doing 'on the spot approaches')
As I'm walking outside, see a redhead hb7 with a lip piercing who i met weeks previous. We fluff for about 30 seconds and I get her number.
Then I see a cute brunette sitting down. Say hi to her, she smiles and says hi back. I ask if she's single and she says yes. It shocked me, as i was so used to getting "no's". She asks why. I tell her that "She was cute and I wanted to meet her" I find out about her and what not, especially what she does for fun. I then see a guy waiting for her(a friend)...and I try to get her number but she says that she's on facebook. Bam, got a rejection eventho it didn't seem like one at all. But I will hit her up on facebook coming up.
After that I went to the lab.
All in all, like week 3...I wasn't able to complete the week. But I will still call up the girls(Didn't have time today as I was really worried about the project being done) and complete another week 4. This time, i'm gonna do "On the spot approaches"...but most of the time, the girl is with someone else...so I'm going to have to just use that to my advantage to get them more comfortable.
So here's my summary for week 4
What I learned:
1) Start out small when approaching, but then go higher
2)If ur too nervous to approach on a certain day, start small by talking to people
3)The only way to feel more comfortable being around hot girls is to interact with them more.
4) Even if girls might not be interested in u romantically, they can still be a friend--Plan that for ones I think are mondo cool.
5) When in doubt, tell ur self...its fine to doubt...but don't quit...keep going even if u hate it...u'll be so glad u did.
6) You'd be so surprised at how much in common u can have with girls, just got to really find that part out about them.
What I Improved on:
1) Can cold approach more easily.
2) My conversation skills are improving...but i still choose to not talk much, thats just my style...not a problem.
3) Feel more relaxed
4) Approaching is becoming a part of me
5) Realizing that even if i miss a week, that doing it in itself is a great blessing.
6) Can't picture myself not approaching anymore, would feel awkward.
7) Keeping up with my priorities
8) Have a better vibe of asking for a number. What's the point of it, if u can sense they're uninterested? I want to sense some kind of interest.
What I need to improve on:
1) Humor-My sense of humor is getting better, but I feel some of it is too bland. Like most of the comments i make are "Stayin out of trouble?" "Chillin...chillin...and chillin somemore" "Keep it real"
2) Mumbling-I tend to mumble now and then...but no biggie.
3) On the spot approaches-Want to be able to approach anywhere, anytime
4) Hesitation-Still have it, but its reducing.
5) Night Game-Comes with practice
Going to do the assignments for both Week 4 and Week 5...in this 2nd try coming up. I deserve to get success.
Numbers: 16
Rejections: 8/10