Week 4 Day 2 Part II
Me and the 2 other dudes decide to hit up a house with a few people. Had a few hot chicks. I go inside and sit down on the couch. A brunette i've seen before spots me, and approaches me(First one ever). I give her the sexy eyes looking and raise my eyebrows. She has a personality of "dont give a **** attitude" We talk for a good bit, and i even get to touch her hair(Pulling it will be my next objective next time
) when i talk about her hair being dyed from blonde originally. For the first part of the interaction, another friend of her interrupts the convo and she goes to the bathroom.
I then approach her again and what not. I just listen in to when she has to say about her self, being a nursing major, going to the same High School, then isolating her and i could've gotten kino but she seemed more of the aggressive personality side even if she was cool...to which i was hesitant to go for more comfort, etc. I see a friend of mine(Shaggy hair and glasses also game her afterwards, and i learn something from him, he's holding her face when he leans in and talks in her ear. She's really into it. I see he's got her, so i let him game her. They both smoke some grass afterwards. See a blonde average build chick checking me out, i go up to her and say hi. She's very receptive and i even give her the sexy eyes look while talking to her. She giggles and i comment on that. When i lean in, i did what the last guy did, i held her face and talked in her ear.
She seems pretty interested, but my escalation skills have some work to do. But then one of her friends tells her that she needs her to check on the other friend, so she leaves. Me and two other dudes were suppose to go to another University to holla at some hot friends of one of my dude's gfs...but the plan never fell through, which is why the convo between me and the cute face blonde died as she was more for practice.
See a brunette chick i got eye contact with, pretty cute dialing on the phone, i say to her, "Why you calling me?" she laughs but after that...she ignored whatever i said. No biggie, it was pretty funny.
The two dudes im with call it a night, but while i'm about to...i see a group of people(4 dudes, and 3 chicks) pretty drunk. I just ask them where they're going, they say they're going toward the north end of campus and follow them. When we get to Hockey party house only a few people are there. A few girls are there, so i approach for the hell of it. One of them was a thick black haired brunette....i ask her name....and then ask hers. Her attention is shifted away by her friend. Next, I'm leaning on the wall and see a brunette chick walk down. She's not in a good mood and says hi while looking away. She looks familiar but i leave it at that. I see that same girl standing there waiting on something. I hesitate to approach but then i say, "Fvck it"...touch her arm first and say, "Wats the long face for?
" She opens up somewhat but says that she's been waiting to leave for 4 hours for her boyfriend. I ask where he is, she points to the end. I tell her that she should just leave if she wants to go home. She says she's gotta wait on him. I eject as there's no point in trying to game her since her boyfriend is drunk, and right over there.
Then i go outside and see these 3 hot chicks walk by(Brunette, blonde and another brunette). The brunette says hi and i say playing dumb, "Do I know you?
" She says, "Maybe
" But she walks by the apartment house. Then the other brunette chick(Hottest one) is about to walk in the door, i touch her arm and she looks familiar and i say, "Melissa?" She says, "No...stacy
close enough tho" I shake her hand with both of my hands on her. She seems mesmerized by this, until her friends tell her to come inside.haha. She says, "Sorry
" in a disappointed manner. I could've talk to her somemore but i wasn't really sure what to say still. I just standed there walking around in that party house for a bit, but then i decide to leave.
NOTE: Still have the difficulty of just saying random stuff to people.
The night then ended there.
What I improved on:
1) I approached more tonight then the previous night
2) Conversations lasted a bit more
3) Now am more aware of what i can talk about with a girl(What she's wearing)
4) Smiled more and that helped
5) Isolating a chick is getting easier
6) Looking Good once again. A player dresses above the rest, got compliments on the shirt.
7) not being desperate for *****.
8) Actually got eye contact from a far and then approached
9) My energy level was higher
10) Starting to do qualify questions
11) During the dancing, i give orders...telling the girls to turn around when i want them to turn around. THANKS PLAYER SUPREME. i'm starting to read up on his philosophies of game at his website.
What I need to improve on:
1) more interesting conversation topics
2) 3 second rule...see chicks then approach no matter what
3) Touch
4) Smooth transitioning
5) FEAR of talking to a buddy's girlfriend. I subconsciously don't want one of my roommates/buds thinking im hitting on his girl...usually when im looking at her while talking, which is why i usually look back at him. Its not fair to the girl as she does nothing wrong....some people have noticed this...but i'll get through it. Maybe I just need to confront the fear head on. The worst that could happen would rarely happen, need to be fully confident about that.
6) Talking with people around me, Random Stuff out of the blue. SOLUTION: Say whatever pops in my head....i have a fear in that.
7) If i see chicks around, talk to them for practice.
What I learned:
1) To keep approaching now, im getting better and better.
2) Decided not to give girls ratings systems, as who cares what girls u want to bang. they're either fvckable or not. I'll just say they're hot or not for now on.
3) I was about to ask one of my buds for advice again, but then i knew the answer so i told him nevermind. I'm further trusting what i have read up now.
4) Parties are better where there are people u already know there rather than ones u don't know.
Numbers: 2/2 Rejections: 0/10
Jose's Post-Bootcamp Day Quickie: the blonde chick i got a number from yesterday called me about the party but they didn't have a keg right before i arrived at the house party i went to. I told her i was going to a party but will hit her up when we can chill later. I call her, but there is no answer. After about 1/2 hour, my phone says that she tried to call minutes ago...and i try to call her again, but no answer. I'll call her in a couple days to hang out with her ;-)
