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    is it right to assume that if she has lots of options she might forget you

    They say on here that you shouldn't contact them to often esp if yhry aren't as interested anymore but if they have 100s of new guys each week (tinder, bars, clubs) surely they won't remember you if there interest fades slightly? Whenever I have 10 options I end up forgetting 1-2 not that im...
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    made one mistake today, she flaked said she'd let me know in a couple hours

    I had a great date last week with a HB, she messaged me the next day telling me what a wonderful time she had so I responded with something sexual as it was new years eve and might get some. She didn't reply but later responded with a happy new year message instead. Fast forward to yesterday...
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    Bracketing you as a lover not as a provider?

    Is there a full proof plan to get HB 's to see you as a lover not a provider? If I start offering to take them to cinema or action dates or dating in general it leads to being bracketed as potential bf or provider.. i just want to get laid, if i focus solely on alcohol dates and try to fvck...
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    tactically what would you do?

    i'm trying to piece together my dates this year to see where i need to improve on and how to deal with certain situations if they arise in future. the girl i was seeing a few months back, we had a great first date, the second and third dates were pretty good as well but no sex yet. i made the...
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    Is there such thing as waiting too long to reply to a text?

    Can you wait too long to reply to a text? I know the mistake I've been making is replying to texts too quickly (either immediately if she replies immediately or within and hour or within a few hours of same day) If her interest has dropped or you are negotiating a time to meet up again can...
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    Picked up a girl, then on my way home bumped into her again!

    God damn, i picked up this hot blonde yesterday who was really chatty, it was difficult to get a word in, every so often i'd interrupt her cos i could tell it might be going down the friend zone route.. anyway outside i number closed her, and she seemed really excited to go for a drink but at...
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    Who are the guys f'ing the attention wh0res?

    They say avoid the attention wh0res cos they're nothing but trouble.. but someone's got to be f'ing them.. who?? Seems like just right time right place, opportunistic lay.
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    She leaves you dangling..

    you guys must have had these sorts of messages before, one of my plates i've hooked up with, made out, fooled around, hand job still no sex i've tried to turn into a relationship and messed up. i thought i was back in there a few days ago but she's sending me friendzone messages so i said f it...
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    religion an issue to bang this girl?

    There is this gorgeous girl I have seen around my area a few times, I used to see her everyday whenever I went for coffee. There was never a good opportunity to approach her until today cos she was studying by herself. I started chatting, found out she was religious and knowing what I know about...
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    getting over oneitis after 3 months

    Its been 3 months since I left my oneitis, I left the country, and took the cowards way out rather than staying indefinitely, I need to return to that country soon for a while for work purposes. How do I get over this girl I was in love with who humiliated me and made me look like a fool before...
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    give me a good voicemail suggestion for encouraging a call back

    can someone give me a good c+f voicemail i can leave with a HB who's lost interest due to us not speaking since we met at a house party 2 weeks ago. i texted her in between but she hasn't come forward with an answer to my text for a date this week so i assume i have 1 last shot with her. i...
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    Should I next her already for not replying to a date arrangement text?

    This is depressing everytime I get a few HBs I lose 2 of them, left with 1 anse her as and I have no idea why. Its becoming so predictive its frustrating. Its like I'm bracing myself for disappointment. You would think by law of averages I'd get the 3rd 1 if I have 3 and lost 2. Anyway I...
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    Ok I called her and she didn't pick up, then I texted her what I wanted to say

    The HB I had a 1st date with last week who i got nervous with at the end and asked her out for valentines i finally called just now. As expected, she didn't pick up. I thought maybe I'd still have a shot if she answered but she didn't and I already had a text prepared. critique please if you...
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    is it afc to make up for something which u didnt need to?

    Is it afc to make it up to a girl for not contacting her about taking her out for valentines but she was the 1 who should have contacted you if she wanted to meet up for it? I made an afc error of trying to set up a 2nd date on valentines on a 1st date. I never bothered calling as I expected her...
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    Do hot HBs notice if you dont call again for a 2nd date even if they not interested?

    Do hot HBs notice if you dont call them again for a 2nd date even if they're not interested anymore or would they just think you got the message? Super hot HBs are always used to guys calling them back for a 2nd date to validate that they have them even if they're not interested. Say your 1st...
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    backing up your claims

    If you tell a girl on a date u give the best massages ever and she let's u massage her shoulders (I gave her a soft zero pressure massage which was pathetic but I was explaining while I did it)in an empty bar and u don't go full out giving her one and just explain in detail the ways to massage...
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    Why does this keep happening when im on dates?

    I met my date tonight it started off really well i had her laughing in hysterics on the walk to the bar.. but as soon as we got to sit down and attempted to order drinks (the waiter was slow) the conversation went stale and she didnt' ask me questions. but she was one of these chatty...
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    neg her for not remembering me or saving my number?

    if you are going for a 1st date with a girl who you met but she didn't save your name to your number and doesn't remember your name but during the 1st convo on the phone you raised IL and now she's excited to see you, should u still neg her for not remembering saving? if so, what would be a good...
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    Is game playing ever worth your while?

    I thought about this the other day dealing with women who have moderately high interest in you but then their interest drops to average interest. if they dont agree to a date time this week saying they're busy but say 'next week would be best?' so a semi counter offer if you delay replying to...
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    Was I downgraded?

    I think I been downgraded or the girl is playing hard to get or maybe is just plain busy. Some women I know work in banking, lawyers other professions etc where they work long hours during the week. I tried to set up a date with this woman who I met last week who technically asked me out. I...
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