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    Situation with GF @ Boss's wedding, may need to involve authorities, advice?

    About 2 weeks ago I was with my gf at my boss's wedding. We had fun, everything was going good, and we ended up bar hopping after the reception. At the end of the night me, her, my boss's wife's brother, his gf, and my boss's wife's uncle (a little creepy) were all in a hotel room. Me and the...
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    Step By Step Dating Guide

    I've had a few people ask me for instructional material for meeting girls, going on a date, sealing the deal, and continued dating. I've posted multiple articles on individual parts and the time has come to consolidate content into a step by step guide. Here's a collection of articles...
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    Reminder: NC = NC on Easter too

    Public Service Announcement: If you're going NC, today is no exception. I know some of you may be tempted to contact an ex or some girl it didn't work out with, or one who's just not interested. Don't. And don't respond to texts/calls from girls you shouldn't be talking to either...
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    #1 Problem for guys: Inexperience (and my thoughts on mine)

    After a few requests, I decided to summarize my overall experience with women and how my outlook has matured over the years (and the lays). I added it to my tips compilation thread, but it's important enough that I feel it deserves its own. Here you go: 50 girls and...
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    FR - Quick - what would you do? (girl 1 'for sure' vs. girl 2 maybe)

    A few nights ago I went out with some friends and met a couple cuties, both 'single'. Girl 1 is a 7. Girl 2 is a 7.5, maybe 7.75. Girl 3 is a friend's gf. I mention her because all 3 of them are best friends. So we went out for a few drinks. Girl 2 is kind of an AW and had a bunch of guys...
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    The Bar Date: a step by step of Why and How for GETTING LAID

    I don't normally do this as I consolidate all my tips into a single ongoing compilation thread in the Tips section, but I felt this one deserved its own for discussion. A lot of guys here ask about where to go/what to do on first dates with girls. Through trial and (lots of) error I found that...
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    Where are all the lay reports??

    Come on guys ... I remember when I started here about 5 years ago (more like 7, I lurked for nearly 2), there were FR/LR journals everywhere. What happened? Are people getting laid less or just too lazy to report on it? It's a good way to stay accountable to yourself and motivate others.
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    The Myth of Monogamy (book)

    Just a heads up for anyone who's into some mind-opening reading, check out this book: The Myth of Monogamy by David Barash / Judith Lipton I'm about halfway through it myself, great read. It puts into scientific terms what we know about male/female sexual behavior. It's a fairly easy...
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    Facebook, POF & Text Game - Tip Compilation (Ongoing)

    With texting now the de facto mode of communication for women of all ages (come on, you knew it was coming, it's the perfect buffer) and Facebook not far behind, it would be silly not to take advantage of both for maximum hedonistic success. Plenty Of Fish (POF) is also worth exploring, though...
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    GG election - being Alpha is now more important than ever

    Does anyone else notice the underlying message of the election results? I did. Women run the western world. Game, for men who want to have a chance of thriving in today's society, is mandatory. I started writing about this last night, but a contributor at Rollo Tomassi's RM beat me to it...
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    All That Is Alpha - Tip Compilation (Ongoing)

    In my 5+ years here (at the time of writing), I've been fortunate enough to meet a handful of mentors who have helped me transform my life completely, to avoid pitfalls with lifelong repercussions and to see the world for how it really is. Rollo Tomassi is one of the few still around who can...
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    Don't be like this guy

    quite typical The sad thing is I see this all around me, every day. Like a youtube video gone viral, the brainwashing is now self-inflicted. I wonder if this Tweet is really meant to score points with the ladies or he truly believes this? Probably a bit of both.
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    48 Laws Of Game – #2: Never Put Too Much Trust In Friends, Learn How To Use Enemies

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart I'm going through and removing the body text of these posts as it's causing duplicate content issues with my blog (and here). I also don't want to spam the entire Tips Section, so moving forward I'll make compilation posts when appropriate. I'm glad you all...
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    Don’t Be Externally Judgmental

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart A usual hiccup for a man considering a relationship is a tendency to see everything as a major red flag and to advise his brothers in arms to ‘next’ her on account of a questionable past. While this does have merit, it’s often detrimental to acquisition of...
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    48 Laws Of Game – #1: Never Outshine The Master

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart Aside from your canonical literature of choice (if you have any), Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power is a must read for anyone looking to succeed in the game of life. Over the last few years I have read, re-read, applied, and internalized many of the principles...
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    Don’t Take It Personal

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart One of the major hindrances to the male population’s interaction with women is a tendency to take things personally. To be fair, women partake as well so the following applies to both, but because they’re naturally predisposed to better handle emotions...
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    Single, Not Lonely

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart A very common go-to response aimed at men, particularly those on the upswing, who have elected to remain single is that there must be something inherently wrong with them. They must possess socially undesirable traits preventing them from ‘securing’ a long...
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    Confidence As Mindset Only – Beware The Price

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart Confidence. It seems to be the answer to all of life’s problems. How do I get the girl(s) I want? Be confident. How do I ace that interview? Be confident. How do I stop people from taking advantage of me? Be confident. How do I ___? Be...
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    30 Days of Indifference

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart As I was sipping a margarita with two girls on my couch last night at 5am, all of us barely awake and hardly coherent, I had a revelation – it’s time for an experiment. For the next 30 days, your humble narrator will be indifferent to women in his orbit...
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    High Interest Level Only

    Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart Life is too short to waste your time on pursuits with no a low return on investment. This applies to everything. Dead end argument? Stop. Dead end job? Quit. Dead end relationship? Leave. A issue for a majority of men is approaching life, and dating in...
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