A few nights ago I went out with some friends and met a couple cuties, both 'single'.
Girl 1 is a 7.
Girl 2 is a 7.5, maybe 7.75.
Girl 3 is a friend's gf. I mention her because all 3 of them are best friends.
So we went out for a few drinks. Girl 2 is kind of an AW and had a bunch of guys hitting on her. I played it cool, and she showed interest in me ... BUT ... Girl 1, while quieter, showed more interest - she bought me drinks and was focused just on me. We hit it off pretty good (we're both bartenders so plenty to talk about) and a group of us came back to my place to afterparty. I ended up making out with Girl 1 so the other 2 knew what was up, but although Girl 2 had a dude with her she wasn't really feeling him. Still, not much I could do at that point. I did isolate her and talk to her for a bit, but that was it.
At the end of the night Girl 1 ended up in my bed. We made out, I got most of her clothes off, kinda messed around, but no sex (she was on the rag and was very self conscious about it).
Fast forward a few days. Girl 2 is cool with hanging out this weekend, though it would have to be daytime for me. She was somewhat into me on a sexual level (kept feeling my abs and telling me how sexy it is - I'm in great shape), but not super talkative, so I'm going to label her a 'maybe'.
Girl 1 wants me. She wants to hang out this week, and I haven't accepted yet. I might play the busy card. I also have way more rapport with her since we made out, I sucked on her tits, she slept in my bed, etc. Girl 2 I didn't do anything with.
So here's my dilemma. Since they're bffs, there's a very good chance I could strike out with both before I even tag one. I don't know how their communication is, but I assume they tell all, so if I mack on them both there's a possibility I'll end up with nothing - kind of like hitting on too many girls in one night and going home alone. Here are my options, as I see it:
Option 1) Hang out with Girl 1 this week, seal the deal. Can try to still get with Girl 2, but chances are it won't happen. If I had to pick, I'd pick Girl 2 though.
Option 2) Delay Girl 1 (busy card), attempt to hang out with Girl 2. If we don't hang out this weekend, forget about it (low interest) and hang out with Girl 1. If we DO hang out, I pretty much have to tap it, otherwise nothing is happening. HOWEVER - there's a downside to this. Even if we make plans and Girl 1 finds out, it could turn out that Girl 2 doesn't hang with me and Girl 1 loses interest because she finds out I'm into Girl 2.
EDIT: Option 3) Kind of like #1 above. Hang out with Girl 1, seal the deal, then give it some time and go for Girl 2 after it 'doesn't work out' with Girl 1. I just have a feeling that Girl 2 has enough guys after her at this particular moment (all the ones that were there that night actually) so I could just end up spinning my wheels with her for a minute. Ugh decisions.
So that's my issue right now. I'd rather have the hotter one, but it's less of a sure thing. I've been in similar situations and it's a good problem to have, but still a problem. If I do delay Girl 1, I can't delay for too long or it'll fizzle.
What would you do?
Girl 1 is a 7.
Girl 2 is a 7.5, maybe 7.75.
Girl 3 is a friend's gf. I mention her because all 3 of them are best friends.
So we went out for a few drinks. Girl 2 is kind of an AW and had a bunch of guys hitting on her. I played it cool, and she showed interest in me ... BUT ... Girl 1, while quieter, showed more interest - she bought me drinks and was focused just on me. We hit it off pretty good (we're both bartenders so plenty to talk about) and a group of us came back to my place to afterparty. I ended up making out with Girl 1 so the other 2 knew what was up, but although Girl 2 had a dude with her she wasn't really feeling him. Still, not much I could do at that point. I did isolate her and talk to her for a bit, but that was it.
At the end of the night Girl 1 ended up in my bed. We made out, I got most of her clothes off, kinda messed around, but no sex (she was on the rag and was very self conscious about it).
Fast forward a few days. Girl 2 is cool with hanging out this weekend, though it would have to be daytime for me. She was somewhat into me on a sexual level (kept feeling my abs and telling me how sexy it is - I'm in great shape), but not super talkative, so I'm going to label her a 'maybe'.
Girl 1 wants me. She wants to hang out this week, and I haven't accepted yet. I might play the busy card. I also have way more rapport with her since we made out, I sucked on her tits, she slept in my bed, etc. Girl 2 I didn't do anything with.
So here's my dilemma. Since they're bffs, there's a very good chance I could strike out with both before I even tag one. I don't know how their communication is, but I assume they tell all, so if I mack on them both there's a possibility I'll end up with nothing - kind of like hitting on too many girls in one night and going home alone. Here are my options, as I see it:
Option 1) Hang out with Girl 1 this week, seal the deal. Can try to still get with Girl 2, but chances are it won't happen. If I had to pick, I'd pick Girl 2 though.
Option 2) Delay Girl 1 (busy card), attempt to hang out with Girl 2. If we don't hang out this weekend, forget about it (low interest) and hang out with Girl 1. If we DO hang out, I pretty much have to tap it, otherwise nothing is happening. HOWEVER - there's a downside to this. Even if we make plans and Girl 1 finds out, it could turn out that Girl 2 doesn't hang with me and Girl 1 loses interest because she finds out I'm into Girl 2.
EDIT: Option 3) Kind of like #1 above. Hang out with Girl 1, seal the deal, then give it some time and go for Girl 2 after it 'doesn't work out' with Girl 1. I just have a feeling that Girl 2 has enough guys after her at this particular moment (all the ones that were there that night actually) so I could just end up spinning my wheels with her for a minute. Ugh decisions.
So that's my issue right now. I'd rather have the hotter one, but it's less of a sure thing. I've been in similar situations and it's a good problem to have, but still a problem. If I do delay Girl 1, I can't delay for too long or it'll fizzle.
What would you do?
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