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    Most awkward pick ups.

    My most awkward was when I picked up in a club and went back to this girls house. We arrive at this very domestic looking suburban house. "Who do you live with?" I ask. "My family. Don't worry my parents are away and my brother is cool." "Okaaaay." She discovers she lost her keys...
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    Conveying Masculinity.

    One subject that seems to be poorly understood is conveying sexuality and/or masculinity. Here are five points which I hope will clear up some misunderstandings. 1: We are NOT monkeys! You are a human being and hopefully the females you are interested are also human beings. The human...
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    The Closing Window of Opportunity.

    It is a firmly accepted principal in these circles that when gaming a chick you have a closing window of opportunity with her. Basically if you don't move things along in enough time she'll lose interest. There is a new post every week from some dude who says "she was keen but then lost...
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    Caught in the Game

    8.30 Friday night. Most people in the trendy city bar have come a straight from work and are now well on the way to being drunk. I'm spawled on a lounge, the only guy not in a suit, in fact I'm in ripped jeans, an el cheapo jacket I picked up for approx $200 bhat in Bangkok and a pair of...
  5. J

    Stay cool!

    I personally think the most important thing with the ladies, and probably anything else really, is to stay cool. You can practice right here. If a dude writes a post about "do looks matter"; stay cool. If the mods delete your posts; stay cool. If someone trolls your post; stay cool...
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    Do any of you guys talk to girls about the stuff here?

    A female friend recently was asking me for a guys opinion on the behaviour of the dude she is dating. She gives me a run down on some massively AFC behaviour. "Does he like me?" She asks. "Yep." I say. "Well why doesn't he do something?" I took a deep breath and then explained some...
  7. J

    7 approaches. I don't know why I bother sometimes...

    Approaching... it can be such a waste of time. So I was at this big V festival thingie the other day. The Pixies played, that was awesome! But all my approaches turned out so ****ty. 1 & 2. I feel a need to pee. Unfortunately this is a big outdoor rock festival. They have about a...
  8. J

    what salsa can teach you about sexuality.

    it was at salsa classes that i first began to escape what it is often referred to as the 'matrix' on this board. THE MATRIX. before going any further i'll say a few words about the matrix. the matrix for me is simply the idea that many men of my generation and those younger were brought...
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    my take on the alpha male subject.

    GAMMA MALE; [gamma is the third letter in the greek alphabet, by the way lads] this is what we generally term an AFC or below. he aint even a contender. he submits not only to the 'most dominant male' but also to any strong male and most females. he is a follower, lacks creativity...
  10. J

    Funny little stories about chicks.

    So I've had a few funny little encouters with the ladies recently. I'll share. I had a female friend over to watch a DVD. I'd just been to the gym and she was busy chopping up some weed. I was about to make a shake of whey powder, flaxseed oil, light milk and blue berries. "Hey babe, want...
  11. J

    The DJ (stupid) approach challenge.

    Recently I have been having an urge to push the boundaries and do some dumb ****. Anyone wanna engage in a kind of weird social experiment? I'm thinking that every week/month we have a different approach challenge? People can post ideas for the challenge and then we can set up a poll and...
  12. J

    A positive Mindset vs Analysing. (+ a # cls)

    The biggest mistake I see guys here making is anaysing ****. Cut that out please! I know how easy it is to convince yourself that "thinking" about what she said or did will give you a clue to how she feels about you and only by knowing how she feels about you will you be able to figure out...
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    A FR for ****s and giggles.

    I figure if fash can repost a FR from a year ago I can write one up from last Winter. Its pretty funny. Hope you enjoy. The boring beginning is significant when it gets good, so read on! My work had a conference where they had to nut out some important national policies. There were...
  14. J

    Who is the enemy?

    Is it women? Is that what this site is about? Is that why we are here? A group of men getting together to fight our common enemy the evil FEMALE! I get the impression a lot of dudes think that is what this is about. Thats a worry. Let me tell you the enemy is not women. They are A...
  15. J

    "I'm not gay!"

    Humourous Little Story With A Lesson: Dunno if you guys know about this little thing in Sydney we have called the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, well it was on last weekend. I actually live in the alternative kinda area near the c.b.d. where a lot of gay guys and girls live. So this time...
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    DJing at the Gym

    Okay, don't burn me for putting this post here. I looked in tips, I looked in health and fitness and I looked in the bible but I could not find a definative post about picking up girls at the gym. So if there exists such a post will some person hit reply and give me a link. If there is not...
  17. J

    Stop thinking.

    The biggest mistake I have ever made with women has been trying to understand them. I am ashamed to admit this; I have spent more time sitting alone wondering what a woman was thinking than I have spent making love to them. Humans are incredible creatures because of our mighty brain. But...
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    A tip for the young guys to get great BJs

    "I've never had a good BJ." I used to say that a bit. Girls that know they are good at this will happily take up the challenge. The first time I said that it was true. "sooooo, you've never had a good bj?" a beautiful girl said to me later that night. Every time I said that after...
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    The "I'd get naked in here" factor.

    Are you aware of the "I'd get naked in here" principal? "The what?" I hear you ask. The "I'd get naked in here" principal. "Que?" Let me explain. Women tend to have more refined... sensibilities than us blokes. It is like they believe that by some unexplained process of...
  20. J

    Love Women.

    I guess I am extremely lucky. That’s the only way I am able to rationalise the completely different way I view women to many guys here. Sometimes I wonder, when I am reading some of the posts where guys are having a spray about how women are *****s, gold diggers, *****es, untrustworthy...
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