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In the past I've lost a bunch of girls (I think) bacause I didn't make a move on them. So I changed and became more aggressive. This is what happened now: On the second date, I was making out with the girl. Afterwards she said: "You're aggressive. I didn't think you were. Ah, you men are...

I've been making out with that girl last night (Saturday), our second date. When we parted she said "Give me a call." Stupid me replied "Oh yeah. When do you have time?" She: "Wednesday night." Me: "I don't think that I have time then." Now I'm wondering when I should call her. Today...

Sunday I called a girl to set up a second date on Wednesday. I told her it'd be best for me at 4 pm, because that's when the lecture I attend at the university ends. (Btw, I recommend setting up dates directly after lecture/work/school, it saves time) She basically agreed, except she has too...

Hey guys, I just wanted be sure what's better, asking a girl out face-to-face or via phone? Or doesn't it matter at all? I see this girl once or twice a week in a sports course. If you want some background information on why I have the number: Second time we saw each other she asked me if...

She's the "sick girl" if you have read my previous post: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47437 This thread is also about her: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=48480 Briefly described, on our first date, there was not much physical...

I've been searching the site for over an hour now and didn't find an answer, so I'll ask this question: situation: had a really nice date with that girl on Wednesday. At the end she said "I hope we'll see each other soon again." I tried to call her on Saturday afternoon, but she didn't answer...

Hi guys, this post became rather lengthy, so I thank you for taking the time to read it. My question: Should I have acted differently at any point that night to get into her panties? Or did I do everything right and didn't have a chance from the beginning - friendship zone? Last night I...

Here's the story: About three weeks ago, I got a girl's number in the bus. 10 days later, I called her. I waited that long, because it was the last week of the semester, so I (and surely her as well) had a lot to do. On the phone then: Me: "Hi, this is ChesterB." Her: "Hi" Me: "How are...

Generally, should you call a girl now and then, when you can't see her in person for some reason? During the next two or three weeks are the exams at my university, so everyone is more or less busy learning, including the girls I'm currently interested in (had one or two dates). Anyway, I...

Hi guys, sorry for bothering you again with a "when do I call"-question, but I'm confused about this girl. I mentioned her already here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=43099 and here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44529 (she's girl...

This post got a bit lenghty, you can skip the last part with the details, if you don't want to read that much. I wonder what I should do with girls I just started dating (i.e. one date or so) concerning christmas. I will give you details concerning the girls in a minute. Most of them won't...

You can read the subject... Now I have three options: 1.) Go there as planned 2.) Call her and tell her I can't come 3.) Take a friend with me, so I won't be the outsider and he might keep the other girls busy. What do you think? BTW, it's the first "date". I already know her friends...

I guess the subject says it all: Is there a maximum amount of time you can let pass without calling/seeing a girl? Concrete situtation: I got a girl's cell number after about 20 minutes convo on a uni party Wednesday last week (that's one and a half week ago now). I called her the following...

Hi guys, I've been searching the web for a sosuave.com-like site for women, in order to find explanation for some of the womens' behavior. I didn't find one yet, but this article: http://www.datingarticles.com/dating-rules-for-women.htm Post when you find further articles or even better a...

On Wednesday last week I was on a date with that girl. I tried to call her this Tuesday and Wednesday, but she didn't answer the phone. So I wrote her a text message saying she should call me back on Thursday. She didn't call, but on Friday she sent a message saying "I just read your message -...

I wonder if taking a girl to a party is a good (second) date. Usually I'd say no, because it's noisy, my friends (and probably hers) are there and there's a chance another guy hits on her. But it's Halloween and I'm sure she'll go to a party anyway... so why shouldn't she go with me. What do...

I got to know this girl 2 weeks ago at a party. We've been talking and kinoing all the time at the party. When it came to goodbye I just got a kiss on the cheek. I had a date with her last Saturday (playing pool and going to a bar later) and it was pretty much the same. What do you suggest...

Hey guys, I was wondering what is the best way to get the next date with a woman. Should you ask at the end of a date "Hey, what are you doing next Saturday (or whatever day)?" Or not ask at all, but call her on the phone one or two days later?

On a date, esp. the first date, would you pay the bill for you both, split it or even ask her to pay it? Consider a coffee date.

Hi, today I met a girl in the bus. We talked about 20 minutes, and we exchanged cell phone numbers. Tomorrow I'll go on a trip to the Oktoberfest, I'm going to return on Wednesday. I told her I'd call her when I'm back, so we can drink a cup of coffee. Should I send her an SMS text message...