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    What's Your Opinion, Experienced DJ's: Will I Get the Date??

    Had a little fun the other night I thought I'd share.... I was out doing my usual tomcatting Tuesday night. Ran into a chick I bump into once a month. I usually flirt with her a bit but most times logistics have really stunk (maybe three previous times). Anyway, I spot her at the bar, she...
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    Women's Life of Abundance: Men as Sushi on a Conveyor Belt

    Though more common in Europe than in the United States, some sushi restaurants have conveyor belt service. If you haven't seen it, it goes something like this: a conveyor belt circles around a bar set up in a large oval pattern. Half of it is in the kitchen where the chef makes food, plates it...
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    40+ Year Old Wall Survivor Can't Find a Man

    I don't know what the policy is around here for posting up people's online dating profiles, so please delete if it's against the rules. Here's a woman in her early 40s, good looking by any measure. Check out her profile... she can't find a man. I wonder why?????? :crackup...
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    Experienced DJs!! How would you have handled this one?

    I've been around the block a few times, with plenty of successes and failures. Always trying to learn and ran into a situation a few months back that I'm still puzzled over how I should have handled it (I failed, ultimately). Before continuing, keep in mind I'm not pursuing this woman at all...
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    You Need Game and Ever More: Young Guys (and even others), Here's What You are Facing

    It is beyond the "mystery" of "woman", though that's part of it. The other part is the socio-cultural changes we are dealing with. When you here guys advising you to hit the gym, learn game, get a career, get off your azz, and so on, they are right. But it ain't enough or a fix-all... Things are...
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    The Catch-22 of the Pure Virgin Unicorn

    Just some observations here related to women who remain virgins versus high levels of promiscuity and the dating market... What prompted me to write this was thinking about the situation of a woman who works at a pub in my neighborhood. She has Marylin Monroe looks, is pretty nice and sweet...
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    Didn't Even Bother to Meet Online Date: What Would You Have Done?

    Not looking for advice, just posting to see what sort of action you would have taken here and/or any commentary on what I did. I use online dating as a sorting of fishing/trolling maneuver. That is, throw out some bait and see if anything bites. Little to no effort, which I save for usually...
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    Unbelievable Example of Evil Female Mindtricks

    This story was told to me by a buddy last night... So, about a year back his wife files for divorce. In the process, she takes a restraining order out on him (he's harmless, never touched her). This also means he would get limited and supervised visits with his kids, and again, totally...
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    How would you have handled this hoop/s-test? Impossible??

    I'm posting this to learn from it, not to salvage a situation with a chick (we both have walked away and in the end, it came to nothing). But, I wonder if I could have successfully passed a test she threw at me, or whether it was an impossible one and I was doomed from the get-go. I'll try to...
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    Texting: A view from the other side

    We've seen posts where guys report what it is like to either get tons of attention from women they are not interested in (or only partially) and/or posts where guys talk about sarging for chicks at a gay club and experience tons of unwanted attention (from guys this time). By the same token...
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    Another Reason Why Newbies Should Take Getting Numbers with a Grain of Salt

    Sometimes on these boards (but especially on ones like reddit/seduction), younger guys will provide a field report about a "number close" and act all excited as if it was some accomplishment. Sometimes it is, particularly for very inexperienced guys. Gotta walk before your run. Other times...
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    When gaming a girl 20 years younger....?

    I've had mixed success over the years but probably have more experience than the average guy but now I find myself in a new situation and would just like some advice from guys who've been there. In short, I've caught the attention of a 25 year old woman while I'm 45. She definitely likes me...
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    Reminder: Swallow your butthurt, no drunk texting, and the Jumbotron test

    Ran into a female friend yesterday that the bar (one I'm not gaming). It's a nice day so we are sitting outside with another guy having drinks. She's talking about some idiot that blew up her phone. He had the hots for her but she had turned him down. She liked his roommate, made out once...
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    To Guys, Women Seem Stupid and Crazy. Get used to it

    This post is to neither give nor get advice. Nor am I interested in a critique of my moves (I know what I shouldn't have done in case #1 below). I'm posting this to give more fuel to the fire about how stupid and crazy women can be. It never ends, but can get better once you've mastered...
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    Soft Harem Collapse

    Over at RooshV a while back, Roosh posted a thread on "What's the Hardest Part about Being a Player?" Answering his own question, he said, "harem collapse." He remarked that suddenly 3-4 girls will all go cold and drop out, even the #1 plate while the others also lose interest. All at once...
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    Recovering from a failed text solicitation for afternoon bang

    Here's a situation where the advice to (1) never apologize and (2) flip the script worked to salvage a plate today. I work at home a few days a week. Today, I was lining up a date for this evening but this also got me thinking it would be fun to have a lunch time quicky with a chick I banged...
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    If you get this s-test here's how to pass. And she fails

    I got a siht-test this weekend. Passed it strongly, with dominance. But, it was the kind of test that by giving it, she failed. I highly recommend you take this mindset with a woman should it happen to you. She's one of my plates. We've dated about 1-2 a week for about 2 months. Sex is pretty...
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    Would like a critique of some game I've ran on semi-interesting HB8

    Will try to make the story short.... Chick, about 32 (I'm 45), newly divorced, hot HB 8, flirty, lots of guys orbiting. Hangs out at a live music club I frequent. I opened confident and got her name, number, FB friends, etc. Haven't blown up her phone, haven't orbited, but have here...
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    Bed a Girl by NOT Hitting on Her: Super Secret Seduction Game

    I had sex with two women this week. One I had met briefly a few times before and another I pulled out of a bar after about one hour of conversation. In both cases, I used some game but did so in a way that the women wanted sex from me without me providing any direct sexual overtures during the...
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    Looking for advice on nuking a hamster

    So, a woman I’ve meet through my social circle is back on the market. She’s about an HB8, yoga instructor, friendly. Of course, the sharks are swimming around her, of which I am one. I’ve not blown up her phone, followed her around the club, or gone out of my way to impress her. But she...
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