taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dating sucks if you don't have any game or perceived value.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yup. Dating still sucks
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ok. More success. Met another hot one on hookup site. Made plans. Showed up at her hotel for a drink at bar, 30 mins later we are naked in her room and screwed like crazy.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
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And that's my point to all the LMS dominate or die crowd heres the same guy same moves different results let the glorious randomness of women provide it always will.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
Here’s my new STANDARD response to women who message with me on a regular old like match. It does wonders to weed out the women who just want some attention, nothing else.
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
That works.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Amazing,,, many will respond that they want to talk first on the phone, so I give them my number, I do not get theirs, now if they are really interested they have to chase me.
Here’s a typical waste of time. We will see if she calls.
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DelayedGratification
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Totally stealing that, or variations based on circumstance. Already did a variation where a 24y/o's profile mentioned "bonus points for taking me out for sushi". So I ran with it because it was so obvious, skipped all the bull**** texting which kills momentum every time, and now I have a date tomorrow night. Or so I think. I give it 50/50 it flakes.
Ironic that the first date with my current GF was sushi, and such an intense experience. Not blue-pill love-at-first-sight, but more: "Ok, you've definitely got my attention".
DelayedGratification
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This could be just another flash-and-dash run with OLD where I get a bunch of matches that get nowhere, but this seems different. I (a) removed a pic of me in a tux, which I think was hurting my image, and (b) am being more direct on the sudden influx of matches. We shall see.