taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dating sucks if you don't have any game or perceived value.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yup. Dating still sucks
- Thread starter John9999
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ok. More success. Met another hot one on hookup site. Made plans. Showed up at her hotel for a drink at bar, 30 mins later we are naked in her room and screwed like crazy.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
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And that's my point to all the LMS dominate or die crowd heres the same guy same moves different results let the glorious randomness of women provide it always will.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
Here’s my new STANDARD response to women who message with me on a regular old like match. It does wonders to weed out the women who just want some attention, nothing else.
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
That works.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Amazing,,, many will respond that they want to talk first on the phone, so I give them my number, I do not get theirs, now if they are really interested they have to chase me.
Here’s a typical waste of time. We will see if she calls.
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DelayedGratification
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Totally stealing that, or variations based on circumstance. Already did a variation where a 24y/o's profile mentioned "bonus points for taking me out for sushi". So I ran with it because it was so obvious, skipped all the bull**** texting which kills momentum every time, and now I have a date tomorrow night. Or so I think. I give it 50/50 it flakes.
Ironic that the first date with my current GF was sushi, and such an intense experience. Not blue-pill love-at-first-sight, but more: "Ok, you've definitely got my attention".
DelayedGratification
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This could be just another flash-and-dash run with OLD where I get a bunch of matches that get nowhere, but this seems different. I (a) removed a pic of me in a tux, which I think was hurting my image, and (b) am being more direct on the sudden influx of matches. We shall see.