taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dating sucks if you don't have any game or perceived value.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yup. Dating still sucks
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ok. More success. Met another hot one on hookup site. Made plans. Showed up at her hotel for a drink at bar, 30 mins later we are naked in her room and screwed like crazy.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
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And that's my point to all the LMS dominate or die crowd heres the same guy same moves different results let the glorious randomness of women provide it always will.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
Here’s my new STANDARD response to women who message with me on a regular old like match. It does wonders to weed out the women who just want some attention, nothing else.
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
That works.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Amazing,,, many will respond that they want to talk first on the phone, so I give them my number, I do not get theirs, now if they are really interested they have to chase me.
Here’s a typical waste of time. We will see if she calls.
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DelayedGratification
Senior Don Juan
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Totally stealing that, or variations based on circumstance. Already did a variation where a 24y/o's profile mentioned "bonus points for taking me out for sushi". So I ran with it because it was so obvious, skipped all the bull**** texting which kills momentum every time, and now I have a date tomorrow night. Or so I think. I give it 50/50 it flakes.
Ironic that the first date with my current GF was sushi, and such an intense experience. Not blue-pill love-at-first-sight, but more: "Ok, you've definitely got my attention".
DelayedGratification
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
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This could be just another flash-and-dash run with OLD where I get a bunch of matches that get nowhere, but this seems different. I (a) removed a pic of me in a tux, which I think was hurting my image, and (b) am being more direct on the sudden influx of matches. We shall see.