taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dating sucks if you don't have any game or perceived value.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
Shopping sucks if you don't have any money.
Welcome to Earth.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yup. Dating still sucks
- Thread starter John9999
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok. More success. Met another hot one on hookup site. Made plans. Showed up at her hotel for a drink at bar, 30 mins later we are naked in her room and screwed like crazy.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
No strings, no jumping thru hoops, no freaking 3 dates and maybe I get lAid.
That’s 2 chics in two weeks. Loving it.
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And that's my point to all the LMS dominate or die crowd heres the same guy same moves different results let the glorious randomness of women provide it always will.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
no I'm not advocating spending your weekend's eating Cheetos on the couch.
I'm just saying that just being out there will provide the pvss and the self improvement is the long game. Game is just a way of not being boring while you are out there.
A hell of my ons were probably just being interesting enough meeting bare minimum looks standards and being available. Happy enough took my profit upfront and got to practice.
Here’s my new STANDARD response to women who message with me on a regular old like match. It does wonders to weed out the women who just want some attention, nothing else.
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
Hi there. I’m not into the endless texting that goes nowhere, I’m sure you can relate. What’s you schedule look like to get together for a drink. John
That works.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Amazing,,, many will respond that they want to talk first on the phone, so I give them my number, I do not get theirs, now if they are really interested they have to chase me.
Here’s a typical waste of time. We will see if she calls.
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DelayedGratification
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Totally stealing that, or variations based on circumstance. Already did a variation where a 24y/o's profile mentioned "bonus points for taking me out for sushi". So I ran with it because it was so obvious, skipped all the bull**** texting which kills momentum every time, and now I have a date tomorrow night. Or so I think. I give it 50/50 it flakes.
Ironic that the first date with my current GF was sushi, and such an intense experience. Not blue-pill love-at-first-sight, but more: "Ok, you've definitely got my attention".
DelayedGratification
Senior Don Juan
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This could be just another flash-and-dash run with OLD where I get a bunch of matches that get nowhere, but this seems different. I (a) removed a pic of me in a tux, which I think was hurting my image, and (b) am being more direct on the sudden influx of matches. We shall see.