"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"You're so mean to me!"

shortstop22

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I've read the bible, and I've already had a few hook-ups with HB 7. Now here is my question. Is there any hidden meaning when a girl comes up to you and says "Hey! You were so mean to me last night"

All I did at this party was just bust her chops, and I neg hit her because she's a HB 9.5, and guys treat her like a goddess should I pursue it? Or am I just looking into this too much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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She was most likely being playful, and was really trying to flirt with you.

Yes, you're looking into it too much. Good job catching yourself on that. I need to work on not looking into things too much too. :)
 

Anomalous

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You should have made fun of her saying "your so mean to me".

She was testing you to see if you would say "I'm sorry it was just a joke, im an AFC just like all the other guys..........blah blah........"

Her saying that is a sign that you're different.

But did she say it in a playful or serious way?
 

DJ4Real

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Usually it's a good thing when women say that you are "mean". She's probably flirting with you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shortstop22

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thought so. she said it in a energetic high pitched tone, so it was most likely definite flirting. I'm going to go for it. Thanks guys
 

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i got the exact same thing the other day. jus play it cool, sometimes a lil seductive smile is all it takes. other times u might have to flip it around on her. theres sum meaning behind, why are u so mean to me . They're intrested, and there tryin to see what kinda guy u are, if u roll over she'l move on, espeically cause shes a 9 five ; just a little test of hers.
 
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