"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're so mean to me!"

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shortstop22

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I've read the bible, and I've already had a few hook-ups with HB 7. Now here is my question. Is there any hidden meaning when a girl comes up to you and says "Hey! You were so mean to me last night"

All I did at this party was just bust her chops, and I neg hit her because she's a HB 9.5, and guys treat her like a goddess should I pursue it? Or am I just looking into this too much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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She was most likely being playful, and was really trying to flirt with you.

Yes, you're looking into it too much. Good job catching yourself on that. I need to work on not looking into things too much too. :)
 
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You should have made fun of her saying "your so mean to me".

She was testing you to see if you would say "I'm sorry it was just a joke, im an AFC just like all the other guys..........blah blah........"

Her saying that is a sign that you're different.

But did she say it in a playful or serious way?
 
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DJ4Real

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Usually it's a good thing when women say that you are "mean". She's probably flirting with you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thought so. she said it in a energetic high pitched tone, so it was most likely definite flirting. I'm going to go for it. Thanks guys
 
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i got the exact same thing the other day. jus play it cool, sometimes a lil seductive smile is all it takes. other times u might have to flip it around on her. theres sum meaning behind, why are u so mean to me . They're intrested, and there tryin to see what kinda guy u are, if u roll over she'l move on, espeically cause shes a 9 five ; just a little test of hers.
 
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