"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You're so mean to me!"

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shortstop22

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I've read the bible, and I've already had a few hook-ups with HB 7. Now here is my question. Is there any hidden meaning when a girl comes up to you and says "Hey! You were so mean to me last night"

All I did at this party was just bust her chops, and I neg hit her because she's a HB 9.5, and guys treat her like a goddess should I pursue it? Or am I just looking into this too much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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She was most likely being playful, and was really trying to flirt with you.

Yes, you're looking into it too much. Good job catching yourself on that. I need to work on not looking into things too much too. :)
 
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You should have made fun of her saying "your so mean to me".

She was testing you to see if you would say "I'm sorry it was just a joke, im an AFC just like all the other guys..........blah blah........"

Her saying that is a sign that you're different.

But did she say it in a playful or serious way?
 
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DJ4Real

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Usually it's a good thing when women say that you are "mean". She's probably flirting with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thought so. she said it in a energetic high pitched tone, so it was most likely definite flirting. I'm going to go for it. Thanks guys
 
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i got the exact same thing the other day. jus play it cool, sometimes a lil seductive smile is all it takes. other times u might have to flip it around on her. theres sum meaning behind, why are u so mean to me . They're intrested, and there tryin to see what kinda guy u are, if u roll over she'l move on, espeically cause shes a 9 five ; just a little test of hers.
 
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